Have you ever asked someone you are dating for an STD test before doing the Wild Thang?

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Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

You damn right I do! And I have no shame in asking him that. If he wants it bad enough, and doesn't have anything to hide, what's the issue?

I certainly don't mind proving to anyone I'm clean before sleeping with him. The least he can do is let me know he's clean as well.

I'm just going to be real: there's a lot of diseases out there. And some people don't care who they expose as long as they're sexually fulfilled. I rather be safe than sorry, thanks.

And before someone says, "Wear a condom!" Guess what...
They can break!!! That and there's other ways to get exposed besides just sex. So am I going to chance it? Not if I can help it.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

Why did this question make this song pop in my head 😂

https://www.youtube.com/embed/387ZDGSKVSg

If people don't they either probably should or wait awhile before sex and use condoms till you know it's all good to go, and they just"going" with just you...

HeyMikeyLikesIt · Accepted Answer

Yup, every time and she should be glad your being safe and responsible. The timing of that conversation is crucial though lol and it’s always a bit uncomfortable and usually when the evening is heading that direction. But I’m not gonna play Russian roulette with my dick for a girl and possibly get a permanent STD just for one night of not controlling myself you know what I mean

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

No. I offer to get STD tested and tell them that I want them to be comfortable with me when that time arrives. Then I look at them with an expectant look and I wait for them to respond. I have been tested fie or six times in the last 14 years and all were negative. Since my partners are post-menopausal, that means no condoms are needed and sex is more spontaneous and more fun.

Jean-Marie_Céline · Answer

Yes. I always give my results and ask hers if she talks about discarding the condom.

Apope16 · Answer

Yes but only once. Typically I just use condoms instead.

jessacat83 · Answer

Absolutely. I've asked everyone I'm dating for a clean std screening before we become intimate & I gladly provide them with the same, along with documentation that I'm currently on birth control, if they'd like that, too.

lilyanony1 · Answer

Yes but I went and got one done to prove I'm safe and lead by example. I've always been proactive in making sure I'm safe and wearing condoms. Men can be weird about getting themselves checked.
They actually think you're weird for asking things like that. But they think its OK to throw around accusations like that.

Hermes-Paris · Answer

I was going to go out with a gyno from colombia once until she sent me a list of all the things I needed to be tested for. Sooooo... I got tested. I'm clean. But the whole thing just made me lose interest. I went out with the woman I met at the grocery store and to this day I have no regrets.

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

Yes. I have also stopped being okay with just asking the generic, how many partners and when was the last time you were tested. Funny enough some people can really be going out there with test results from 3 partners ago.

Nope. Nada. You ask, what date did you get your last test AND how many partners have you had since then. If they can't give you a straight answer, and at least feel a little guilty they put it off so long, thats a hard pass.

TheorionMage · Answer

'Yes' and I ALSO took the equivalent test.
... we MAY NOT know where we're together heading BUT...
EACH deserves to know with certainty where one another has been~

NO 'surprises'
(In earlier life, I once got genital warts from a friends with benefits for NOT testing.
Liquid Nitrogen to have them removed; NO fun!) :(

InsanityIncarnate · Answer

No I do that covertly.. I ask if they like to donate blood. If not then I try to get them to give it a try. I love donating blood. Have since I could at the age of 17. I have my 4 gallon pin. No I have not slept with that many ladies. I couldn't give that much of my heart away and still live. That's about the only way I can think of aside from just asking.

Daniela1982 · Answer

It's the wise thing to do unless you want to read the bad results of your own test on your phone later. If the guy is really into you he won't mind, but if he just wants to fuck you he will resist it. What? That ass hole!!

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

I feel like you and your partner should always be tested

Miristheiss · Answer

No.
I never would have gotten one either.
I've never been tested my entire life for an STD. If someone I was dating asked for that I would just have said no.
If we break up we break up. I am not having medical exams done that I otherwise never would have done just because some dating mate had told me too.

Dragonpurple · Answer

Really how do you get honest results? Medical tests are confidential and you can't call the doctor and just ask.

All the times I've been tested, I never got a print out either... I get a phone call saying, your good nothing to worry about.

I suppose if you really like someone you probably trust each other then to be honest.

pigoat · Answer

My old roommate use to do this He showed me his results saying he always keeps them in hand  New one every couple weeks Just like pornstars

DAsk04 · Answer

Of course you ask! Better safe than sorry and your setting a respect for yourself. If a guy cannot and will not do one, well where’s the respect and consideration on his end? It’s not something personal against him it’s a matter of precaution and safety

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yes definitely, there are far too many things around. nothing spoils a relationship like genital warts

SavageGirl101 · Answer

Yesss I have to and I found it weird when the guy would make a big deal about it so I just didn’t do it with him cause u not about to give me no stds😭

sheikalana · Answer

Didn't ask for an STD test but we usually use condoms for a while and when we decide to stop wearing condoms that's when we both do an STD test.

meetkitty123 · Answer

In Every relationship! No sex without a full std physical.

Nick568 · Answer

Yep! Always do. It still seems kind of taboo for some reason but it's something that seriously needs to be normalized.

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

Oh yeah. I make sure we both get tested before anything happens

Ewgies01 · Answer

I haven’t because I’ve only been with one person, but if I were back in the pool I would for sure ask. No hesitation. Asking for an std test from a new partner is just smart.

SuperLillith · Answer

Yes. I also asked for a printout of the results signed by the doctor, and a phone number to call to verify authenticity. I've asked both guys and girls and if they dont want to, then i move on.

worldscolide · Answer

Yes i have, especially if i found out that that person had unprotected sex ever in her history.

Meldrum · Answer

I have been particularly choosey as to whom I have sex with. I don't do random and I don't do prostitutes.

Levin · Answer

I don't have sex with people who sleep around. Or I wear a condom and ask when they got a test. Overall, I don't sleep around, so I'm not too concerned.

JEndigoBleue · Answer

Nothing wrong with both parties getting tested. Better safe than sorry. I would definitely ask him to test if we are in a casual or serious relationship. Let's make it a date... Afterwards "Let's party all night long!" LOL!

poneglyphs · Answer

Nope because I have never been with anybody, but I wouldn't mind telling my future girlfriend.

Emperorxxxemilio · Answer

I would expect them to tell me and if they don’t and I do catch it you will bet I’m taking legal action against their asses.

Lliam · Answer

One girl asked me to do that. We went down and got tested together. It wasn't an unreasonable request. Not a bad idea.

Harris_sresht · Answer

This is low key not asked much, but is so important that This is what that's supposed to be normalized!

Mocahontas25 · Answer

No but I really should have... Sometimes I allow my Pussy to think for me and yea... It’s EXTREMELY important to verify before engaging it it.

VanillaSalt · Answer

I’ve been thinking about getting tested in a whim. But I’ve limited my sexual partners enough I’m clean and I know it.

misanthropistkev · Answer

Nope 👎 takes all the fun out of hooking up  #nomorecondoms#cowards

shade_19 · Answer

I think to do that😆  But I'm single for now  And my ex was virgin just like mee (that we still are) So never got chance to ask that  But really find it funny and serious at the same time

Myk13 · Answer

I have never asked any to be tested. I have been asked many times. So I am regularly tested and keep a copy of my results in the truck. It’s just so much easier that way.

krin_m · Answer

Yes. That is a pre-requisit! I myself get tested regularly.

MissRomantic · Answer

Yes. This is reasonable to ask and for your partner to ask you too. It’s safe for both sides.

Anonymous · Answer

Yep, that's just the smart thing to do. If the person gets offended by that and/or refuses to get tested, they can go have sex with someone else. Not gonna be me.

TOTEMPLASTER · Answer

I would not date anyone who would cause me to ask for such a thing !

Citizenkirk · Answer

No, but I did ask her for an Ebola and cholera test after returning from relief work in Africa.

Agape93 · Answer

It’s a requirement before we even kiss.

Phoenix98 · Answer

No but given how much of a whore everyone is these days is it's probably not a bad idea.

Anonymous · Answer

I've never done it because I've never dated. But I thought about doing it once I get a boyfriend. I would also take a test so he knows I'm clean.

lonelyfortune · Answer

Not yet. But I would if it ever came to the sex question.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol this question amuses me because i worked with a woman who woyld do this with every guy finally one night she decided to skip her little rule and what happens? She catches the Blickey. Lmao

Desconhecida · Answer

Always. It's a must!

Iron_Man · Answer

No I don’t get involved with that Wham Bam thank you ma’am lifestyle

Screenwriter · Answer

Seems reasonable these days.

BareTruth · Answer

I got asked to take one because the last girl I dated was a virgin until I came along and I didn’t mind because I wanted to make her more comfortable

EmotionOfFear · Answer

I figure it's the first thing I'm gonna do before losing it. Both of us getting tested.

Waldoe · Answer

well... I am 70, my "thang" isn't wild anymore, but I love the question

Chris_68 · Answer

always... when we both get tested we are safe

Redstang88 · Answer

No Should, but don’t

abfabvictoria · Answer

EVERYONE! duh people.

Ninani · Answer

Yes.

ct1243 · Answer

Yes I have

Anonymous · Answer

Yes but then I found out he was a virgin

CriticalDiscourse · Answer

Yepp.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I have no problem with this

JosyJosy · Answer

Everytime

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