Where did I go wrong? And what do you think I should do? Do I keep calling him or wait for him? Does it means he's seeing someone else already?

[Onyiifaith]

[SueShe]

Others have said it before me. We need a little more context for us to have an opinion of the entire situation.

You can use the update box and give us some additional information about your "case" so that the answers given to you make sense and are not just generic replies that will not satisfy you.

Based on the little information available, I would say that the guy you are seeing is not behaving the way you think he should and that is why you are uncertain and possibly worried that he may have chosen someone else over you.

[Onyiifaith]

Am currently having a little fuss with my boyfriend over my misplaced earring. I misplaced my earring in his house on my visit, when I asked him if he saw my earring we looked for it and found it on the dining table. I mistakenly picked one and put inside my bag and left the other one behind thinking I picked the two. I got home the next day and started looking for it in my house I put a call across to him to ask him if he saw the earring he said yes it's in his house. I went back the next day on a visit and looked for it on that same spot I couldn't find it. I told him I couldn't find it there he said its there. I searched for a while and left I didn't pick it. I visited him again next time and reminded him that am still looking for my earring. He then told me he taught I picked it the last time? I told him no that I couldn't find it. He started shouting immediately telling me that I saw it. I tried reminding him of how i couldn't find it that last time. He never allowed me to talk or explain anything he was busy shouting you saw it and you took it. I told him I didn't it at all he got angry and went to the same dining and picked it. I told him but I looked for it here. He never gave me the space to explain that If I had seen it, I wouldn't come back asking him for it. He said I should just pick it that he has something more important than this to think about now.. I left with so much pain of how he reacted so 😪.. I later called him myself the next day to ask after him.. which he answered casually and since then he never called me back or chat me at all over 5 days now.. where did I go wrong? What do I do? Do I give him space?

[SueShe]

There is not much in your account here that would lead me to believe that he is seeing someone else.
He was simply just upset at the turn the entire thing took.

There is not anything you really did wrong except to be insisting that you left that earring and did not pick it up.

I think you can give him 2 more days and if nothing happens, then I think you will have to consider that the relationship is on the brink. I hope you can find your earring and that your boyfriend realizes that he overreacted. Good luck.

[DishLady]

How would anyone answer these questions with no content to explain WHAT YOU DID...

[Onyiifaith]

Am currently having a little fuss with my boyfriend over my misplaced earring. I misplaced my earring in his house on my visit, when I asked him if he saw my earring we looked for it and found it on the dining table. I mistakenly picked one and put inside my bag and left the other one behind thinking I picked the two. I got home the next day and started looking for it in my house I put a call across to him to ask him if he saw the earring he said yes it's in his house. I went back the next day on a visit and looked for it on that same spot I couldn't find it. I told him I couldn't find it there he said its there. I searched for a while and left I didn't pick it. I visited him again next time and reminded him that am still looking for my earring. He then told me he taught I picked it the last time? I told him no that I couldn't find it. He started shouting immediately telling me that I saw it. I tried reminding him of how i couldn't find it that last time. He never allowed me to talk or explain anything he was busy shouting you saw it and you took it. I told him I didn't it at all he got angry and went to the same dining and picked it. I told him but I looked for it here. He never gave me the space to explain that If I had seen it, I wouldn't come back asking him for it. He said I should just pick it that he has something more important than this to think about now.. I left with so much pain of how he reacted so 😪.. I later called him myself the next day to ask after him.. which he answered casually and since then he never called me back or chat me at all over 5 days now.. where did I go wrong? What do I do? Do I give him space?

[DishLady]

Possibly he was just busy and aggravated about something else and DID think you figured out where it was.

Burning he gets crazy and is yelling at you then where you went wrong was to be with a guy like that. Don’t be with someone who acts like that with you. He doesn’t call you now? Good. It’s his loss not yours. He’s a jerk who doesn’t respect you.

[Onyiifaith]

Sincerely cos we've had more serious fuss than this.. and this just about earring questions he got worked up and over reacted..
We've never been over five days and not talk to each other. Highest 2days. been wondering what went wrong with him.. I've also called him the next day he answered but never called me since then till now.. not even a chat... 😪 ve been dating over a year plus..

[DishLady]

You shouldn’t be there. You CERTAINLY shouldn’t be rewarding his poor behavior by calling and asking about him when he’s treated you so horribly.

[bowenw]

You shouldn't have to beg someone. If they are interested in you they will do everything in their power to be with your or talk to you.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Abbycado]

You need to give a lot more context to the situation surrounding the question.

[Onyiifaith]

Am currently having a little fuss with my boyfriend over my misplaced earring. I misplaced my earring in his house on my visit, when I asked him if he saw my earring we looked for it and found it on the dining table. I mistakenly picked one and put inside my bag and left the other one behind thinking I picked the two. I got home the next day and started looking for it in my house I put a call across to him to ask him if he saw the earring he said yes it's in his house. I went back the next day on a visit and looked for it on that same spot I couldn't find it. I told him I couldn't find it there he said its there. I searched for a while and left I didn't pick it. I visited him again next time and reminded him that am still looking for my earring. He then told me he taught I picked it the last time? I told him no that I couldn't find it. He started shouting immediately telling me that I saw it. I tried reminding him of how i couldn't find it that last time. He never allowed me to talk or explain anything he was busy shouting you saw it and you took it. I told him I didn't it at all he got angry and went to the same dining and picked it. I told him but I looked for it here. He never gave me the space to explain that If I had seen it, I wouldn't come back asking him for it. He said I should just pick it that he has something more important than this to think about now.. I left with so much pain of how he reacted so 😪.. I later called him myself the next day to ask after him.. which he answered casually and since then he never called me back or chat me at all over 5 days now.. where did I go wrong? What do I do? Do I give him space?

[wk_85]

Lack of context

[In_Trance]

Move on