How long should I wait to follow back and old fling?

[Anonymous]

Old fling (not ex) started following me after she kinda took off on me. I don’t think we’re serious about each other, just attracted. how long should I wait to follow back, so I don’t come off eager? 😅

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's a tricky one bro. You don't wanna come off too eager, but you also don't wanna make her think you're not interested, you know?

I'd say, wait like a week or two before you follow her back. That gives you enough time to not seem super desperate, but it's not so long that she might think you don't care.

The key is to play it cool. Act like it's no big deal, but make sure you eventually follow her back so she knows you're still interested. That way, the ball's in her court to make the next move.

Just be careful though, you don't wanna get too invested if this is just a casual thing. Make sure you're on the same page about what you both want. Don't want either of you catching feelings if it's not meant to be, you feel me?

Anyway, I'd say a week or two is a good middle ground. Give it some time, then hit her with that follow back. See where it goes from there, my dude.

[Nikki1989]

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[In_Trance]

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