I’m obsessed with the woman who my now ex-boyfriend cheated with?

[Anonymous]

I’m constantly comparing myself to her and wondering why he cheated. Is she prettier? Is she funnier? Smarter?

What is it?

[mon_key]

he cheated cause he is just an idiot. it's not your fault. you're beautiful, funny and smart. don't compare to someone else.
I think people usually cheat not cause they don't like what they already have but cause they like doing new experiences.. it's an horrible thing, i know, but some man likes to do this, and they're just idiots. don't ask yourself if it's your fault or if you count less than her. you don't count less than her. she is a girl that went with an engaged guy and it's so bad. she isn't more than you, you never should think this
you're too much for him, and if he is someone that cheats he will cheat on her too. so she isn't that special
I hope you will get better💗 if you stalk her just block her. it happened to me too, and I always used to check her social media to see how much pretty she was and comparing myself to her and thinking I wasn't prettier like her. but life goes on and it's not important anymore. I hope you can stop putting her on a pedestal! 💗💗

[DishLady]

You're making yourself nuts for no reason. He's not with you any more. He was going to be a sack of shit anyway whether it was with this woman or a different woman. Let it go and move on.

[Avicenna]

It's a waste of time. You're still young- plenty of other guys would like to meet you

[ChicoFromThe305]

Just stop comparing yourself to them, it will create an unhappy life for you

[Nikki1989]

Comparing yourself to others is a losing game. Just move on.

[Anonymous]

What’s the point in obsession? If you aren’t meant for someone, you’re just not.

[scott04sa22]

She possibly has more to offer

[Asker]

Like what? If she had more to offer, wouldn’t he have left me to be with her? She found out about me then blocked him.

[scott04sa22]

Are they together? He probably more connected with her than he is with you. My ex-girlfriend cheated on me because her fiance has more to offer to bring to her table. Also after she cheated on me, her reputation got bad from what I heard from people

[scott04sa22]

Also cheaters are cowards

[Ariesman81]

Yes. And she probably lets him piss on her.

[Anonymous]

People do cheat with easier after all