You as a girl or women how do you pick your boyfriend? What is your requirement and what kind of men attract you?

[poppy23533]

[SueShe]

I don't date because I am not interested in all the drama that automatically comes with a relationship. I am not interested in the fornicating part and since men are ONLY interested in that part, the relationship is doomed to fail. However, if I had to date and find a boyfriend, then those conditions would have to be met:

- Character
- Intellect
- Personality
- Charisma
- Responsible
- Humor
- Caring
- Open mind
- Being respectful of others, animals and nature
- Not selfish
- Altruism
- Honesty
- Humble
- Generosity
- Simplicity
- Kindness
- Smart
- Empathy
- Positive attitude
- Assertiveness
- Good body hygiene

That about summarizes what I seek in another person. I know that will be difficult, but I can still hope, no?

What I am not interested the least are looks, cult of the personality, physique, height, weight and for those that are so worried about that small detail, the size of their penile appendage. That is totally not relevant to me.

[poppy23533]

I agreed with your point of view

[DishLady]

I check him out in the first few minutes that I meet him. Is he confident-but-modest or cocky and into himself? Is he friendly and courteous with everyone or is he just a player? Can he take care of himself... or is he a slovenly deadbeat? Is he smart? Is he hardworking or lazy? Does he brag? (Is he married -- that's a no no, obvi...) Does he like me or is there no chemistry? Is he shaggable or just ok? Would I take him home to Momma or not?

[poppy23533]

Sounds cool

[DishLady]

Thanks. :)

[jennifer_bloom]

I look at happiness potential, attraction potential and loyalty potential.

[poppy23533]

I can’t be agree more

[Nikki1989]

I was looking for...

Kindness and compassion
Respect
Confidence
Intelligence
Sense of humor
Honesty and integrity
Good communication skills
Shared interests and values

I found all of that and so much more.

[poppy23533]

Great

[ItsJill]

He just needs to be a decent guy, really.

[poppy23533]

I agree