This is my first time on a dating app. I matched with a guy and I’m unsure if I should make the first move. If I do what do I say?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

I mean just reach out if you’re into him enough but be aware with online dating. Meet somewhere public. Don’t go home or bring anyone home you barely know either.

Also you can bring a friend. You can have that friend with you say at a coffee shop or just pretend they aren’t with you. For instance. I can tag along with a trusted female friend and just sit in the corner where I can see them. But not be with them…. Obviously if someone becomes more serious I wouldn’t keep doing that.

[SteveSmith1985]

I think you should make the first move. You basically say something along the lines of "dumb joke about how you two matched" then a simple, You look like someone I'd be interested in getting to know better. Then the "If you might be interested in chatting I'd love to hear from you. EASY PEAZY

🙂

[Abbycado]

Look at his profile and what he likes. Say "Hey, I noticed you are into _________ " to get a conversation started.

[molonski2]

" Hey Steve , read though your profile , we share an interest in XYZ , I'd like to catch up for a coffee , what do you think? I see your location works , let me know and hope to talk to you soon " enjoy :) smile , nice to see you. Michelle.

[Anonymous]

It doesn't really matter because it's probably not going to work out anyhow. Most people online are just playing around so try to remember that and not to caught up about saying the right thing just be genuine. It's the best course of action just in the off chance you actually meet a person who's serious.

[Shiprex]

Just say hello we matched tell me about yourself and what you want out of this site

[Ariesman81]

So... rumor has it you wanna fuck me

[gghjngukkiiiii]

wait until the guy makes the first move

[itsannalee]

Just say “hey “.