Guys, would you date a girl who lived the hoe life in highschool but moved on from it since then?

[Anonymous]

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It lasted a bit over 2 years where I slept with 1-2 new guys every month. At the beginning I didn't even care that much about the sex, I just enjoyed the attention and gifts from men and it was an easy way to make me feel popular. But I don't care about that anymore

[Summeroflove]

I can say it genuinely depends on the woman I would take someone whose honest over not honest any day of the week, but I will say that some people are questionable. Trust takes time and if she genuinely regrets and feels remorse as well as guilt for her past. Not saying at some point someone can’t forgive themselves but as well as not doubling down or just not thinking anything was wrong witn it. I could.

I want someone who has similar values that I have. I don’t expect perfection

[SteveSmith1985]

Yes. It's not ideal obviously. But people can change. As long as the guy is convinced that you aren't like that anymore, he will be able to overlook it, if he really likes you. My one piece of advice would be: Do not hide this from a guy you're getting with. Most importantly don't lie about your past (whether by omission, or bald-faced lying).

You need to acknowledge it; and the fact that you are no longer like this.

🙂

[SteveSmith1985]

Your update: So what you wrote there, would be a perfect way to summarize it should it ever come up (with a guy).

You'll be alright. The change is more important than anything. The right guy will be ok with this as long as you're honest.

[ohsheeT]

If she was everything I'm looking for then yes

[ohsheeT]

Hey, we have all done things in our life. And most of them can be honest to them self's about it... this shows who you really are. On the inside. I would be down on myself. I would stand up tall and be proud. And take everything you learned about yourself. And sex during this time, Frame learn and grow from it. Your a good person and never. Doubt?
That your not. I would date you just because of your honesty

[Anonymous]

Eh, kind of depends how extreme her hoe life was, and how long ago it was or if she genuinely changed. If she had a decent amount of bodies but was really good in bed because of it and never cheated before and it had been a while, I’d consider it.

if she was just getting railed without thinking about it and didn’t even get good at having sex because of it and seemed like she couldn’t keep her eyes off other guys then I wouldn’t.

[LiamJHayden]

Whenever I see this type of question my response is always the same. "How would I know?" I don't ask about past relationships or body count, so unless she talks about it I would never know.

[Shiprex]

If we're not living around the the same place and likely to bump into old flames then maybe

[Joshydavid25]

I mean, if she was truly a changed woman, with the hoe life behind her, then yeah why not..

[msc545]

So that is about 50 guys in two years. I bet you have a hell of a reputation...

[Asker]

Kinda...

[masterSir]

No. Just lile I wouldn't wear clothes that 100 dudes have worn.

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

Nah she was a hoe for everyone but not me

[PaleDale]

Got no problem with the hoe life 😊

[PaleDale]

That's not even the hoe life

[Anonymous]

No, I wouldn't.

[Anonymous]

No. People don't change at thier core.

[Hellraiser1984]

Nope.

[jahaims]

Nope

[BarryLiverstone]

Sure