Should I just give up on dating since guys seem to leave me for fit, slim or gorgeous women?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of seven months cheated on me with a slender woman. I caught them making out at the park by our college! I dumped his ass immediately. He said, “Well what did you expect? I like a woman than can take care of her health, not a 200s woman.”
Wow….

Now look, I was never one to turn head at all and I was never the prettiest woman. I won’t sugarcoat it. I am not gorgeous. Im just average. I am a big girl, plus size and 234lbs. Size 16W/18W.
I am currently losing weight. I lost weight before (went from 250lbs to 190lbs) but I gained it back after my high school boyfriend left me for a model. Then I had a another boyfriend that I dumped because I caught him in bed with another girl. A petite, thin girl and she is beautiful
I never gotten a third date.
My dad made sure I feel beautiful the way I am.
I was never called gorgeous or drop dead gorgeous, not even my own father or uncles. Or my mom. Some of my cousins are gorgeous.
My dad said, “If you think she’s pretty, her cousin (her name) is drop dead gorgeous. Beautiful girl my brother and sister in law raised, also takes care of her health, works and very polite.”
It made me feel horrible but I mean it’s true I’m not gorgeous. I’ll never be gorgeous and I just have to accept it. My mother is a gorgeous woman. Why am I so ugly?
One of my cousins jokes and said, “Because you look like your dad. That’s a problem. No wonder you’re so ugly.”
Wow that was mean. He was like, “Oh come on! That was a joke.”

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Oh and I’m 5’7

[ohsheeT]

Don't you dare. Because your looking at it wrong. These guys that do this yo you are no good anyway. And then they go out of the way to prove it yo you... one of these days somethingbeill click in side you You will see yourself in the different light

And I want to send you will start changing your body Your personality your attitude your chemistry You will love yourself one hundred percent

And that's when change happens , and then all of a sudden , you're not going to be recognizable

These guys that had a chance with you But had to prove to you what a piece of garbage they are... and they will say fuck I blew it. And you will just smile and keep walking

[Summeroflove]

You’re going to have to take time and find who genuinely likes you and if that means waiting until you find someone that mean waiting. What’s meant to be will be meant to be.

Let the superficial men get what they deserve

[septemberintherain]

Work on your self-love and the rest will come! Sending hugs! ♥️

[Shiprex]

Learn to see the person you are as worthy and good. A lot of guys see through the visage of appearance and prefer the person inside to be authentic and confident in themselves. Care nothing for the comments of those around you who are superficial and vain, that's not you. Be someone who cares, about you and others.

[shortster]

Maybe you should consider the guys you are dating? Some guys like larger women and there are plenty of guys who don't go around cheating.

[Asker]

What’s that supposed to mean? Consider guys that I am dating?

[shortster]

You are going after the wrong type of guys. You need to focus on loyalty more when looking for someone to date.

[Asker]

I am focusing on loyalties.
I don’t want to date fat or chubby guys but I always get them approaching me. I’m a chubby woman myself but losing weight. I feel like my parents perfer me to date less attractive men? My dad is an attractive man and my mom is with him.

[shortster]

Your track record would suggest otherwise. Perhaps you aren't paying attention to the red flags and letting guys tell you what you want to hear. Cheaters aren't exactly the most honest bunch and are happy to tell you lies to get what they want from you.

[jahaims]

You are so pathetic that it makes more sense to you to give on dating instead of not being a fatty

[Asker]

Give on dating? Where did you learn grammar at?
I’m working on losing weight alright?

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

Try losing weight than trying to be accepted the way you are.

[LiamJHayden]

Just hold out for one who values you for who you are.

[PaleDale]

Nope, keep trying. It'll happen.

[masterSir]

Hit the gym then