Are you impressed by inner or outer beauty in a person?

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Apulu_backagain · Accepted Answer

To be honest, outer beauty is the first impression and normally every person first comes off as a beautiful to me, I mean why is everyone so beautiful nowadays 😭

Anyways the first time I see a person they're beautiful to me unless I first see them being obnoxious, in that case their nose starts looking weird to me, like a bad witch of course. And if they're being rude then I notice their wrinkled forehead and hairline way back because of how much they frown, thinking that it makes them superior.

If I meet someone and I gradually know that they're a good person, they start looking more beautiful to me. I don't know why but their smile and their eyes now holds a spark which makes them look so kind and generous in a way I can't explain. It's like adding colours to a sketch.

If I meet someone and gradually know that they're not a very good person, I start noticing all their flaws in a bad way. Like ew, your nose has hair inside it and ugh your teeth looks weirdly yellow or yuck, their skin is a weird texture.

I don't know what's wrong with me.

loveyouoak · Accepted Answer

Inner beauty impresses me more. I am not a visual person; I am emotional. For example, while men are often impressed by outer beauty, women are typically impressed by inner beauty.

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

Inner beauty for sure. I am way more impressed with inner beauty.

The problem is, you don't see the inner beauty until you know someone a bit. So all you see it outer beauty (which can still totally impress me, don't get me wrong)

Finding a person with both... that's ideal

fish5505_87 · Accepted Answer

The outer Beauty makes you take notice, the inner, beauty, keeps you fixated!

DishLady · Answer

A balance between both is always nice. SO MANY people are natural beauties with great personalities and they don't need to fuss over their looks too much. Others focus too much on their looks and not enough on personal development (smarts, charisma, kindness, honesty, etc.), which makes them super ugly in my book.

Anonymous · Answer

Outer beauty may be the original attracter but inner beauty is what's gonna keep me hanging on.
When I first started working at an amusement park I met this really great girl at the first game I worked. She was a good bit shorter than me and wasn't incredibly pretty but was very cute and, what attracted me to her was her personality!! There were a couple other girls I met there that were prettier and sexier but I would've much rather had the girl at that first game!!
A few years later, I was in a band there was this odd girl who was fat, had a terrible voice, smoked clove cigarettes like they were going out of style, wasn't pretty at all and she wore bizarre make-up. Everyone made fun of her for how ugly she was but, she was very sweet to me and I had a crush on her for a couple weeks.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Both. One is effectively a bunch of well organized bacteria

The other is some form of energy that vibrates at a good frequency.

It's easy to be amazed by the physical beauty after it evolved out of some planetary star dust. Impressive.

The inner beauty is more of like listening to a well tuned instrument, and it's by choice. That's a beautiful thing!

I prefer inner beauty and a great heart to love mankind.

natured · Answer

A combination of both would immediately attract me, but if he has the looks and nothing in his brain he immediately becomes unattractive to me...
So one can't go without the other I guess
Do I think he has to BE PERFECT, no, what I mean with outer beauty is him looking polished and clean... Nothing else

Purpleronnie · Answer

Well to a certain extent they have to have some outer beauty so that I have the motivation to look for the inner beauty but I’d still say I’m not a very visual guy , looks aren’t anywhere near as important as who they “are”

LaureenVO · Answer

Both are important. Looks attract, personality make you stay. Attraction is a big part of a relationship. So both

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Inner. It's a greater statement of the person you are when you have inner beauty. Some of the shittiest people I've ever met have been outwardly beautiful.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Inner, the outer self is important for maybe 5 minutes, sometimes not relevant at all.

soe11 · Answer

For me both equally important and vital. For long term real relationships. Physical impression is necessary to me.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

definitely their personality... the inner beauty... :D

Maria9_ · Answer

A mix of both physical and personality. I spend a lot of time in the gym. I like an active person.

Jay-_- · Answer

Inner then outer but if I don't know them and i see them from afar it's outer then inner.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Inner. Outer beauty is temporary. Pretty runs out. Inner beauty remains.

Anonymous · Answer

I am attracted to both outer and inner beauty initially, but inner beauty is the primary factor for anything longer term.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm impressed by the people with outer beauty capable of inner beauty. Usually you only get one.

PrettyCrumblBb · Answer

Inner beauty more.  If the guy is handsome but has a horrible personality, I'm out ✌🏻

Eempriyanka · Answer

I will become my beautiful self and nothing can stop it or reverse it

NathanDavis · Answer

both can be impressive

nawtee_me · Answer

Inner beauty impresses, outer beauty doesn’t…

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Both, but you typically see the outer first

sawno · Answer

Both

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Both.

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