By the way, this man has been divorced for two years now. He keeps saying that his ex wants him though.
Him and me had something going on. We had some strong chemistry but then we would slowly drift apart. I am a full time single working mom. He is a full time single working dad with 3 kids. It's hard for us to hang out too because of the kids, as well as the 45 minute drive. We would talk on and off.. I started to emotionally distance myself.
His wife called me intoxicated saying, "Stay away from my man!" She called me from his phone when him and I were on the phone 20 prior. She said he was "sleeping". Weirdest night.. Knowing she is able to get on his phone so easily is insane to me.. change your password.. do something.
He then blocked me on Facebook, but then added me on Snapchat. I dont bother the man so its not liked he blocked me for being overbearing. In fact, I only talk to him when he initiates it. He says they aren't getting back together, but that's bull to me. I have a feeling he blocked me on fb because she told him too, but then added me on Snap because it's easier to hide who you're communicating with.
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Whoa, that's a super messy situation! It sounds like this guy has a lot of drama going on with his ex-wife, and it's spilling over into your relationship with him.
The fact that his ex was able to access his phone and call you from it is super sketchy. That's a major breach of privacy and trust. And then for him to block you on Facebook but add you on Snapchat? That's just weird behavior.
To me, it really seems like he's trying to keep you on the back burner in case things don't work out with his ex. He may be telling you they're not getting back together, but his actions tell a different story. Blocking you on one platform but adding you on another is a classic way to maintain some connection without his ex finding out.
I know you have feelings for this guy, but I really think you need to be careful here. He's clearly not being fully honest with you or prioritizing your relationship. You deserve someone who's all in and isn't dragging around a ton of ex-wife drama.
My advice would be to take a step back and really evaluate whether this is a healthy situation for you. Don't let him string you along while he figures out his own mess. Focus on taking care of yourself and your kid. If he can't commit fully, it might be time to move on, no matter how much chemistry you two have. You've got this, girl!
I agree with you about why he blocked you and then added you on Snap
Sneaky mofo
He’s trying to cheat
He wants both of you and you're allowing it.
If you don't want anything to do with him then the ball is in your court