Girls, What is the worst thing about men these days in the dating world?

[Anonymous]

[FoxyFatale]

The biggest issue in dating these days, honestly, is the lack of clear communication. Some men (and women, honestly) don’t always know what they want or aren’t upfront about it, which can lead to confusion or mixed signals. It’s not necessarily a gender thing—it’s just a problem in the way people approach dating nowadays.

[Asker]

Well said.

[unknowngurll1212]

soo true 🤍

[PeachyPie93]

Men will act all interested in you for a good three months, writing you good morning & goodnight texts, face timing you everyday, calling, hanging out, saying your pretty, I like you, I had two guys even say they love me and then once you are really liking them and invested they drop the bomb that they aren't looking for a relationship rn.. Waste of time.. fr..

[unknowngurll1212]

trueee 🤍

[Anonymous]

Some sort of complex issue within self
Communication issues
Obsessed with old partner
Commitment issues
Lack of wanting to prosper within himself
Not wanting to work or have job
Doesn't care about making the lady feel like an actual lady it's like in today's dating sence for women a girl has to be the girl and the guy in the relationship while the guy be the girl.

All the nice ones being gay or emotional decent men n girls gay

Valuing family more than the lover no need to put lover first because family more important it's like they can't fuck their sister or marry them but that bond more important then the actual wife wedding day to some men so yeah.

Aggression within their own personality

Thinking that white women are the only women in the dating sence who can make them mother fucking prosper my apologies but I had to say it.

[cth2188]

As a black woman, black men think we're here to coddle them.. I'm sick of these unevolved low tier men

[Opinion Owner]

I hope you find the one someday good luck to you

[IslaTheWitch]

a lot of men try to pretend they are someone different... they don't like themselves and lack natural confidence...

[Asker]

Well said.

[alice55]

That all they want is sex and theyre always horny impossible to have a good conversation, in my personal experience only very fews men want something serious (getting to know a woman personality instead of just asking for pics and sexting).

I find that I generally go along better with men from Eastern European as theyre better at conversation.

[Nikki1989]

They listen to other men for advice and then wonder why they are failing at forging relationships. It would be comical if it wasn't kind of sad.

[Asker]

What sort of bad advice?

[itsannalee]

Want to get a traditional woman, but avoid to be a traditional man.

[Asker]

In what sense are they not traditional?

[itsannalee]

Did not pick the girl on the date, ask for 50:50 on the date (and something ask the woman to pay), don’t buy gifts but asking for gifts from girl, not fully provide the family but asking women fully do housework.

[Asker]

50:50 on a date is a born loser.

[unknowngurll1212]

the worst thing is the lack of emotional depth... many seem afraid of real connection, avoiding vulnerability nd consistency. It’s like they want the benefits of love without the effort, making it hard to trust or feel truly valued... 🤍

[cth2188]

Lack of emotional intelligence, MISGONY, sexism, selfishness, the fact most men don't value women and treat them like cattle, and the fact most men don't want marriage, but embrace hook up culture...

[Sleephazard]

Yes. Most guys aren't even looking to date. They just want to get laid.

[cth2188]

That's it just getting laid without commitment

[cth2188]

Why would I date these XYs

[cth2188]

No thanks rather be single and make 💰 now plus travel

[cth2188]

I don't date men anymore it's trash 🗑️ out here

[Sugar100]

Men don’t want a girlfriend and want only friends with benefits or hookup , men don’t want meet family so all that is the worst for me of men. They r trash and useless for a woman.

[MzAsh]

They think they’re the prize despite not having their shit together and having such few interested candidates compared to women. It’s bananas.

[MoonFace2]

A lot of men and women value the wrong things in relationships and are always looking to upgrade, rather than accepting their partners, warts and all.

[Anonymous]

They want to be treated like a princess lol. Like I be taking care of them instead

[Asker]

😲😲😲😲 l

[Anonymous]

Most guys want sex/hook up. They don't want nice girls/saving themselves until Marriage. This generation is messed up. Real connection is lacking, responsibilities & seriousness.

[Anonymous]

guys who say they want to date but end up only wanting sex.

[Anonymous]

Telling every girl the same S**T he’s telling me.

It offends me when a guy tells me things that I know it’s not true and think I’m naïve.

[DellBell]

That some men can be controlling, abusive and basically make you feel like no matter what you do... you will never be good enough simply..

[Biya12]

No emotional connection
Lack of commitment, honesty and loyalty.

[Anonymous]

That the traditional ones are all taken.

[Asker]

You're young don't worry, they are not all taken. What's lacking in the leftovers?

[Opinion Owner]

In my experience most guys today are not traditional, at all. And the only ones I know who are, are either married or in serious relationships. The other guys seem to be only interested in sex, and that's not my thing. Dating sucks right now.

[Anonymous]

Most of them are already taken.

[Asker]

So what's lacking in the leftovers?

[Asker]

And you are young. They are not all taken ❤️

[Opinion Owner]

I mean, most of the men who put themselves in the dating pool are taken. That's the issue.

[Asker]

Where are you looking?

[Eempriyanka]

Thinking they are better than women 😂

[Anonymous]

Ghosters , men today do that a lot.