Guys, Does anyone here like women who aren’t barbies and have a good personality?

[Anonymous]

Sorry if that’s too specific. Looking for something online only rn , cuz I can’t drive atm. I don’t like rude people or ghosters. please be kind in the replies , I know how people get on here.

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In America.

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I don’t mean morbidly obese , I mean a slight stomach.

[Blunky]

For me, personality defines how attractive someone appears. A barbie with a garbage attitude simply looks like pretty garbage to me. It's like polishing a turd. A woman with a good personality radiates and I can stare at them all day while enjoying good conversations.

My last EMT partner is a good example. I'm not physically attracted to her at all. But we spent so much time together talking about anything and everything under the sun which made me still want to sleep with her.

[Asker]

I don't know how you can sleep with someone you don’t find physically attractive

[Blunky]

Oh I didn't. The physical attraction was really in the negatives and that was kind of the breaking point of why we didn't sleep together. But the lust was still there with how intimate our conversations got. What I'm saying is, personality goes way further than physical attraction does.

[Asker]

True good personality accounts for a lot.

[Blunky]

It sure does. It accounts for even more if you're looking for something online only. But online dating in general is demoralizing for 90% of people because of unrealistic expectations. Just be yourself and the right people will come along. You have to put yourself out there for them to find you.

[Asker]

True it’s difficult since I can’t drive tho.

[Blunky]

Some guys love being the driver, like myself. If whoever you find doesn't have a car as well though, hope you're within walking distance lol. But does it matter if you're mainly looking for something online only? There are other transportation options available if it comes down to it.

[Asker]

I don’t live alone either 🤣 so it’s a crapshoot for irl dating atm.

[Blunky]

There's actually far more people now than ever in your age range living with their parents or with others. With the current economy and housing market, it just doesn't make financial sense to rent anything. So have hope.

[Asker]

thanks it sure does kill my chances some cuz men never approach me or when they do it gets ruined by my dad.

[Blunky]

Oh god. If your dad is taking part in your relationships then that's a different issue. No guy likes to be interrogated or feel threatened by their possibly-future-father-in-law. Keep him out of it if you can lol.

[Asker]

lol 🤣that’s dads for ya

[Blunky]

Yeah, totally understandable for a father to want to protect his daughter more than anything. He knows what young men are like lol.

[Asker]

lol 🤣

[ohsheeT]

Hi. Yes barbie is not real so she not for Me. I like people who are themselves and can be themselves that what the beauty is about each person . Ok so tell me what your looking for you can add me or DM me if you would like to

[sawno]

Absolutely, I prefer natural beauty and someone who enjoys deep conversations.

[Asker]

Are you in America?

[Shiprex]

Good personality is enough in most cases. They're more likely to be fun and happy

[Asker]

I can’t seem to find anyone tho.

[MannMitAntworten]

Isn’t a Barbie a girl’s doll?

[Asker]

Yes it is

[MannMitAntworten]

Very few women share her physique.

[Asker]

True , but a lot of men want that.

[MannMitAntworten]

I think we just prefer fit or proportionate. Not necessarily the Barbie Doll look. Granted many like women on the slightly thick side as well. But even then that is probably proportionately speaking.

[Asker]

Most men throw away women even if they have a little stomach , it’s hard to find men that don’t want extremely thin women, trust me I’ve looked.

[MannMitAntworten]

That just isn’t what I am seeing where I live out west. Plenty of women with stomachs and boyfriends around here.

[Asker]

Maybe I need to move 🤣

[MannMitAntworten]

That is an option.

[Asker]

Dont mind me , im just packing 🤣

[MannMitAntworten]

By all means. Do it.

[Gayuglycowardv3]

Nope