Is not approaching a woman because you know you'll get rejected a sign of low self esteem or being realistic?

[Anonymous]

Realistic meaning you know she's a league ahead of you and instinctively you know where you stand before even approaching so you don't bother and move on

[PeachyPie93]

Probably both.. since sometimes you might think you are being realistic about yourself because others have rejected you in the past but sometimes you are wrong.. Like I have been rejected by ugly dudes and dated hotter guys then ones who rejected me.

[Asker]

But if you see a pattern with the kind of women who reject you, you get a good idea of the ones who will more than likely reject you versus the ones who probably won't

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah I guess that is true.. but if you really like someone it doesn't mean you can't still shoot your shot.

[Asker]

Not every man will try die to instinct

[Asker]

Due*

[Anonymous]

Of course not. I mean don't get me wrong if you absolutely do not want to approach ANY woman that could be a sign of concern.

Most women today play the field, and play multiple men at once. Men today KNOW that. It's BIG reason why men give so little to women until they've proven themselves WORTHY of it.

The only thing that concerns me about your question is you say "meaning you know she's a league ahead of you". It's fine for HER to think that. People can think anything they want. But it's not OK for YOU to think that. I know a lot of women probably think they're out of my league and that's thier right to think that. Most of them same women do not have enough to get me. That's just real.

Never let anyone tell you your worth man.

[Zack-Bann]

You are in whatever league you decide to be


If you “know” she’s in a league ahead of you then that knowledge makes it true


No one can make you grow self esteem on a tree


But if you accept that you’re in the beast league possible you’ll approach and will be pleasantly surprised by how wrong you were

[HelpfulWoman]

eh its giving dumb incel so yeah, better to avoid involving a woman in your own dumbarsery

[Asker]

Your post is giving Feminsts vibes

[HelpfulWoman]

if being a feminist is triggering you, you prove my point. feminist isn't an insult XD

[Asker]

Yes you triggered me. Now apologize woman

[NathanDavis]

both... they are being realistic about not being able to handle proper engagement with another person

[slatyb]

Been there, done that. It's a sign of low self-esteem. See a counselor to work on this. It can change your life. One helped me, I wish I had done it when I was your age or younger.

[DrPepper12]

Well you'll never get the answer that way!! Shoot your shot!! If you wanna play, play hard and risk vulnerability. May the odds be ever in your favor!

[Nikki1989]

Low self-esteem, immaturity or both

[Anonymous]

It can be realistic, or caused by shyness, or by low self-confidence.

[Shiprex]

it's a sign of self respect.