Do you think it's cope when women call men "insecure" for not wanting to date a career, oriented woman?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Some men absolutely do avoid these women out of insecurity and it's stupid to deny it. For some men it's just a relationship lifestyle choice. Either way it's their choice to make regardless of the reason. Some men just want a relationship where the woman is more taking care of the home and/or kids and has more time to take care of him too while he works more but it's not necessarily rooted in insecurity. Some men will literally say it themselves that they feel emasculated, dominated and fear being outsmarted or outearned in money. There it's insecurity, maybe a little misogynistic. But it's fine, as in they're not obligated to date anyone they don't want. There are types of people that would make me insecure while dating and types of people I don't like for what could be considered moronic reasons by others, and I avoid these people in favor of the type I prefer. That's OK to have preferences and to be insecure even if the reasons are stupid, because in the end you're not forced to date anyone you don't want to.

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

Yes, it's pretty much always a cope when a man or woman generally blames the opposite gender for their own lack of relationship success.

DummyThiccFeraligatr · Accepted Answer

Career women tend to have a certain mindset / disposition, and more than a few men don't want to deal with that. The arrogance and competitiveness they often exude are annoying and certainly not attractive.

I have to compete with other dudes (implicitly or explicitly) in the workplace all the time. Why would I want to come home to a woman who does it too?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It has nothing to do with insecurity and everything to do with the priorities of women like that being inconsistent with most men's pririties. Those women don't understand what men need a woman in their life for. Why would a man choose to date a woman who doesn't meet his needs?

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Probably. It's not uncommon to shame men who dare to have standards on here, just look at my recent question on here.

Spongebobssocks · Answer

Yup.. women who act masculine usually have unsolved trauma. It is a form of protection. That's what I've noticed through my own experience.

inhua · Answer

imagine if short men used the same logic that women won't date them because those women are insecure

Pohjolan · Answer

I think its less men being unwilling to date career oriented women but them being outcompeted by non-career oriented women. Why would a guy choose a 42 years old doctor over a 22 years old nurse?

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. Everyone has to work. It's even better if it's your dream job.

gorydetails · Answer

of course it is.

Do you think it's cope when women call men "insecure" for not wanting to date a career, oriented woman?

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