What do you think about Natanael Vásquez's assertion that women prefer "bad" men and that being "good" doesn't make him successful with them?

[oldpigg]

[Anonymous]

There a lot of really immature women today. These women were never raised to be traditional. And the fact that they are a woman means they do not have to take the responsibility of growing up and taking responsibility for thier own life. Women today can rely on multiple men bartering her carnal favors for whatever she needs (or wants). As a result these women can take on and dismiss men on a whim. Why does and attractive man sleep with multiple women? Because he can. Why does a woman exploit multiple men? Because she can. In short, women want whatever interests them. If a woman has no clue (because she has no point of reference) what makes a good man. She's going to choose whatever SOUNDS good to her. As a guy what sounds better to you? The woman who says she's going to suck you off? Or the woman wants a commitment?😆 As a woman a guy that fulfills whatever the woman is looking for at the moment is what she wants. And the REALITY is MOST women today do not make very healthy decisions in that department.

So this is long way of saying by in large. Yes, this gentlemen is right. But this is above is the reason why. You can't use full logic when trying to understand women. It simply does not work. You have to factor in emotion HEAVILY. Because EVERY decision a woman make is filtered through her emotions. And emotions generally are not consistent.

[Shiprex]

I think a lot of young women who've been brought up in restrictive (not abusive) homes where the notion of being with men is scandalous may adopt over zealous and excitable behaviours when let loose among men that the excitement of the bad boy brings on the superficial urge to get to know them, but on the whole girls want someone stable and able to treat them respectfully.

[Screenwriter]

There are SOME women who want a man who is "bad" because they are thrill seekers. There are some women who want a bad man because they're bad themselves. BUT, if you're constantly running into women who ONLY want bad men, perhaps your "picker" is off.

Maybe you need to find a different way, place or time to find women. Maybe YOU are choosing BAD WOMEN!!! Consider this and work on it...

[777GgG]

My guy isn't the bad boy type. He's sweet, gentle, funny. He's a gentleman. He jokingly raised his voice at me and the sour look that followed was so heartwarming. He took me by the hands and apologized. I need he was joking but the reassurance he gave me was everything. I could tell that he'd never be a man that would call me name or blittle me.

[SteveSmith1985]

All the married guys in my neighborhood are total bad-asses. This seems right.

[Vegasrunner]

This is an old adage. Its only new to young men as they enter the dating market. Women absolutely prefer "bad" men over good ones. However because of the way relationships are marketed men don't really understand this until they start dating actively, and most women start earlier than men.

[Anonymous]

Bad boys are to women what sluts are to men. Men love sluts because they are sexually available on a casual basis, but when men get serious about finding a woman to settle down with, they're NOT looking for a slut.

Likewise, bad boys make women's panties wet, but when looking for a husband, few women want the bad boy.

[Anitha001]

enforces stereotypes that were prevalent in the 50's. it's outdated and untrue. also, never listen to the opinions of celebrities on such matters because their 'dating' lives have nothing to do with average experience of most people. (in general don't rely on celebrity opinions)

[purplepoppy]

It's that kind of self pity that keeps guys single.

[Agape93]

Why would I care about some dudes opinion on what women want?