Is it shallow to not want to get to know someone if you dont find them physically attractive?

[Chthou95]

Doesn't matter how great their personality may be, if you're not attracted to them physically, you won't care all that much to take things further

[Anonymous]

It's not shallow but it can be like losing our chances of finding someone like diamond covered below the dirt.

Sometimes simply just outer look can't make us attracted but once we know about them about their personality we start to get attracted towards them. And sometimes after knowing more about an attractive man we lose interest in them also.

But still if we will keep same criteria for choosing our partner this way, I personally feel it's the wrong approach.

But still it's personal choice and their priority. You can keep any basis to select partner for you.

[Anonymous]

It might be shallow. But let me ask you which is worse? Taking a half dozen bullets in the stomach and bleeding to death slowly? Or one bullet to the head and out like a light?

In other words it's not wrong if you're not wanting to lead that person on in any way. Most women do not take this attitude. They consider flirting harmless and completely fair game. Even if the end result is a man gets led on. Because thier attitude is it's that guys fault for taking it too serious.

[Zack-Bann]

It’s better to be shallow than dishonest and trying to pretend like you’re above laws of attraction


If you’re not into someone then that’s that


You don’t owe EVERYONE a chance. No one does

[slatyb]

How are you acquainted? You only have so much time, and you don't owe any to a relative stranger.

[Anonymous]

You can get to know them as a friend, but if you don't find them attractive, they are obviously not a date material.

[alice55]

Is it. but you're free to do what you want

[Chthou95]

Why is it shallow to you

[alice55]

Shallow definition mean superficiality and refusing to get to know someone because of their look is a superficial reasons that being said it's ok, we're in a free country.

[Chthou95]

Its only shallow if looks are the only thing you value. But if you like how someone looks and then want to know more about them after then personality takes over

[alice55]

Not wanting to get someone because of their look is shallow that's literally the definition, you're freee to do what you want don't make you a bad person but that's literally the definition of shallow