Should I express my interest in her if I’m not ready?

[Anonymous]

I’m not financially ready for a long term relationship, but I worry someone else might get to her before me. She’s in her last year of school.

Express interest

Wait a bit until you’re financially ready

Updates

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She’s in her final year of highschool * so I’m hoping it’s unlikely she’s seeking a long term relationship at this point.

[Anonymous]

I would. You can always back out later if you change your mind.

Take it from somebody who's older than you. One thing life has taught me is you cannot sell yourself to a woman that isn't buying but you certainly can and probably will lose a woman that is buying because you're unsure. That's not an acceptable answer for a woman. ALWAYS be sure even if you're not. You can always change your mind later. And don't feel bad about this. Because women reject a 100 guys to accept 1 man. This is thier vetting process. Our vetting process comes later. So she should expect this POSSIBILITY.

[Lliam]

Financially ready for what? To marry her and buy a house?

I had relationships from age 16 through 26 when I was still living with my parents and working low paying jobs. I had a car. That was it. Those girlfriends weren't looking for someone to support them.

[Screenwriter]

How old are you? And what kind of financial situation do you need to date an 18 or 19 year old?

If she's shown an interest in you, why not reciprocate? I don't think anyone in high school expects someone a year or two older than them to be a Mr. Moneybags.

And if she does, then you know what her priorities are. You might be better off choosing someone who's reasonable about what a young man can afford in the dating game.

[Nikki1989]

Since when do you need to be financially ready for a long-term relationship?

[MrChinaski]

If you like someone, tell them you like them.

(Not a criticism but... I feel like I say the exact same thing to the exact same question over and over and over).

[CaptainSmartass]

If I were you, I'd wait until I was ready.

Simples...

[Anonymous]

And how old are u? She’s older than u? Why are u that desperate for her?