She has feelings for me, but doesn't know if she is ready yet for something serious. Do I wait?

[Anonymous]

As the title says, the girl I've been talking to has said she has feelings for me. She's told me this a few times.

I talked to her about us becoming a couple, and she said again that she dies have feeling for me, but she said that she doesn't know if she's ready for a serious relationship yet.

This would be long but not so long distance. She lives 8 hours away from my and across the border in to Canada.

She recently had a bad situation with a guy she met online that was supposed to be her friend that came and visited her. I'm sure this is contributing.

We have talked before about wanting to meet up, but since that issue happened she mentioned that she'd like us to wait a bit longer before meeting. I totally understood this and told her that's fine.

She still sends me kiss emoji and hearts, doesn't know if she's ready for anything serious, but still wants us to stick to each other.

I guess I'm just kind of confused with the relationship and where I should be going from here. Any help would be appreciated.

Updates

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So a bit of an update, I asked her if she wanted to have a digital date with me this week and she said yes. I told her that I know it doesn't seem like a lot compared to a normal date, but I want to have dates with her. She agreed.

[litty]

There's no rule for how much time it should take for a couple.

Some people like to play it slow. You aren't obligated to wait for her. If you feel it's worth the wait while you get to know her, that's fine. If you want to hook up with someone sooner, that's fine too.

From my experience, talking to many women makes a woman see you as more attractive.

[Asker]

Trust me, she doesn't like the whole talking to other people thing other than friends. She was pretty adament about us not talking to others as a potential fling or relationship.

[litty]

Yeah, talking to other women as friends is fine.

[OhGreatConfusedOne]

I'm going through the exact same situation myself. It's actually scary how similar this is. But anyways.

I think it depends on how you yourself feel. Do you enjoy her presence enough to wait for her to be ready? While waiting can be okay, don't wait for something that will never come.

Keep doing what you're doing and don't try to pressure her.

[KrakenAttackin]

Hell no. If she saw you as an Alpha stud there would be no hesitation on her part. She is massaging you into being a beta orbiter who makes her laugh and listens to her bullshit, while she finds an Alpha who makes her cum. Move along.

[Asker]

Considering the fact that she likes dirty talk with me and calls or takes a video of her cumming during it, I'm not quite sure about that. She also asks me before she touches herself and cums if she can.

[baserunner611]

One step at a time, just keep talking 💬 and tell her how you feel. If you get a chance, go see her pull the time in.
If you seriously maybe she see may change her mind

[Asker]

She already knows how I feel. She wants to wait before meeting in person because of what she just went through.

[baserunner611]

Poet

[ChrisMike1919]

She looks like a keeper so wait for her.

[Asker]

That's what I was thinking. I just wanted to make sure I wasn't making a mistake by waiting.

[ChrisMike1919]

Definitely not a mistake.

[Liuz02]

It depend how much you like her, yes?