I think my boss has feelings for me?

[Anonymous]

Okay so my boss isn’t my GM, he’s just a shift manager. He’s 28, and he’s married with a baby girl who’s about 10 months old. I think he has feelings for me because we talk a lot outside of work, he doesn’t even sleep in bed with his wife, and he tries to build me up because he knows I have self confidence issues by complimenting me at least once a day and trying to get me to open about problems I have. I know he loves his wife, it isn’t an issue of that, but I know that his marriage isn’t where he wants it because he has told me that before. I make it a habit to talk about his wife, just because I’m paranoid about potential feelings developing that I obviously would not let continue because he is (obviously) married. Am I being paranoid? Is he being a good friend and trying to help me get out of my shell or should I be worried? I would love to not be worried, but guys have always sort of eventually fallen for me no matter how hard I try to avoid it happening. I don’t want him to have feelings for me either, so don’t think that, it’s just nice to have a friend and honestly I like the fact that he’s married because that’s sort of like a “you can’t like me because you’re married” type of deal and it makes me feel better when I get paranoid about stuff like this.

Be concerned.

Don’t worry.

[blondfrog]

Yeah your reading way too much into this based off what you have told me. He is only complimenting you cause you are insecure about your looks.

[Asker]

That’s what I was thinking but he teases me at work too and I’m thinking he does that to get me to speak more in general. I’m better with texting and opening up through written words, and when he interacts with me at work I tend to try and talk more lately. Plus he sends me pictures of his kid when he has them and we talk about cooking mainly. I think I’m right in assuming I’m being paranoid but I figured asking for opinions might help. Thank you ❤️

[blondfrog]

you could be right but you know if you want a clearer answer you have to provide more details right? We weren't there and we are not psychic.

[Asker]

I mean I thought it was clear enough but okay.