Okay so my boss isn’t my GM, he’s just a shift manager. He’s 28, and he’s married with a baby girl who’s about 10 months old. I think he has feelings for me because we talk a lot outside of work, he doesn’t even sleep in bed with his wife, and he tries to build me up because he knows I have self confidence issues by complimenting me at least once a day and trying to get me to open about problems I have. I know he loves his wife, it isn’t an issue of that, but I know that his marriage isn’t where he wants it because he has told me that before. I make it a habit to talk about his wife, just because I’m paranoid about potential feelings developing that I obviously would not let continue because he is (obviously) married. Am I being paranoid? Is he being a good friend and trying to help me get out of my shell or should I be worried? I would love to not be worried, but guys have always sort of eventually fallen for me no matter how hard I try to avoid it happening. I don’t want him to have feelings for me either, so don’t think that, it’s just nice to have a friend and honestly I like the fact that he’s married because that’s sort of like a “you can’t like me because you’re married” type of deal and it makes me feel better when I get paranoid about stuff like this.
I think my boss has feelings for me?
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