I think I'm falling for my boss.
He has been my boss for about 10 months now. The first few months we were just flirting, then we started flirting more and more; then it turned into late night conversations; then hanging out. What's the worse part, is that I have never felt more compatible with anyone else? He makes me feel so happy, he accepts all my flaws to the fullest! And I have never meet a guy like him. The energy between us is undeniable!
The situation is, I just received a promotion, and I'd hate to think it was because of him, because I have several managers that I report to; and this had to be a group decision. The thing is now I have to go to meetings, in which he runs and it just gets so difficult, for me to leave my feelings out of the business aspect of our lives.
Although I feel I have done a great job of hiding this, because I would never want his position to be at risk. I truly care about him, and want only the best for him. But lately, I've been wondering if the best for him, would be for me to just forget everything we have. I feel like our relations are much more a risk than anything. But I just can't stop thinking about him.
But then, today, after I already decided to extinguish all emotions, he mentions how he hates working here. And how he can't wait to get out of here to take me out to the nicest place ever. We can't really go on dates, because of the risk of someone seeing us.
Now, I'm just so confused! I don't want him to leave his manager position. I don't want to have that pressure on our relationship, if it were to flourish.
Please help me figure out what to do! Should I be strong and hold it out, or should I just close this chapter for the amazing memories to hold?
He has been my boss for about 10 months now. The first few months we were just flirting, then we started flirting more and more; then it turned into late night conversations; then hanging out. What's the worse part, is that I have never felt more compatible with anyone else? He makes me feel so happy, he accepts all my flaws to the fullest! And I have never meet a guy like him. The energy between us is undeniable!
The situation is, I just received a promotion, and I'd hate to think it was because of him, because I have several managers that I report to; and this had to be a group decision. The thing is now I have to go to meetings, in which he runs and it just gets so difficult, for me to leave my feelings out of the business aspect of our lives.
Although I feel I have done a great job of hiding this, because I would never want his position to be at risk. I truly care about him, and want only the best for him. But lately, I've been wondering if the best for him, would be for me to just forget everything we have. I feel like our relations are much more a risk than anything. But I just can't stop thinking about him.
But then, today, after I already decided to extinguish all emotions, he mentions how he hates working here. And how he can't wait to get out of here to take me out to the nicest place ever. We can't really go on dates, because of the risk of someone seeing us.
Now, I'm just so confused! I don't want him to leave his manager position. I don't want to have that pressure on our relationship, if it were to flourish.
Please help me figure out what to do! Should I be strong and hold it out, or should I just close this chapter for the amazing memories to hold?
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