My (23f) boyfriend (28m) talks about his female boss quite often. She works out of a another office and lives in another state so whenever she comes into town my boyfriend makes a point to say, “Meredith is going to be in town today.” (Using a different name) this has been happening for a while and I didn’t think much of it until he started mentioning little things like “oh wow Meredith flew in for a day trip just to speak at a conference”. Or he would have happy hours pop up late notice because Meredith was in town and it makes him look good to go to these happy hours. All of this is pretty normal, and he has always spoken highly of her. It’s just the random comments about her that he drops out of nowhere that lead me to believe he may have interest in her. Also on another note I have heard her ask my boyfriend over video calls, what does your girlfriend do for work and he responds “she’s finishing up school”. It always seems like she’s just being professional and not digging for info. That’s leads me to today. My boyfriend was able to secure going to speak to students at the college he previously attended about his career and the company he works for. He’s planning to fly out for this meeting in about 2 weeks and he randomly mentioned (on the way home from dinner at my parents house) that Meredith offered to drive him from the airport to the city. He said he wasn’t going to ride with her saying “he doesn’t even know what they would talk about”, but I have a feeling he might ride with her and/or think that her offering to drive signals that she’s into him maybe? That’s a stretch but it was odd because it’s only them going and we had initially planned that I would go with him back to his college town because he wanted to show me it. I don’t think any of this is super abnormal but I do feel like my boyfriend may be interested… should bring this up? Would love opinions!
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Mine he is crushing hard! Big red flag!
Imagine your married and he does this... cause he will guys don't change much after!
He wants her and she might like him but he has you an amazing girlfriend but he would throw it all away for her!
My sister's ex did this just got one chance and he cheated on her got the boss pregnant and left Thier 3 kids!
Men like this are trash and just flaunt it in your face 😈
That’s horrible! He’s not doing anything unprofessional though. Everything he’s doing is in line minus the talking about his boss randomly. I also think he may be crushing or looking for a way to feed his ego. Maybe he even sees her as a challenge because his promotion depends on her. Situations like this definitely make me question the future of our relationship. That being said, the boss is married and has children.
And he probably won't do anything unprofessional until there is that chance to!
That conference or car ride alone together 😞.
Won't judge but if she is open maybe bored at home or no sex from kids and work she might want him and he cheats without a thought about you!
I'd be so worried also!
Might be his ego or job but really would never trust it
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