If someone is a regular cocaine user does that mean everything they say like I love you ect is just a lie?

[Anonymous]

Like it's the drugs talking rather than the person?

I've no clue about drugs and the effects it's not my way of life but a guy I've been seeing is taking cocaine every weekend and drinking with it and I know it's addictive. so does that mean his feelings for me is because of the coke or he does feel that?

[SteveSmith1985]

No, it doesn't mean his feelings are a lie. It's not the drugs talking when he says things to you. A cocaine addiction is not conducive to a good relationship. I can tell you that from experience. It's a drug that some people can use and be ok. For me, I was fucked the very first time I ever tried it. (and I didn't even really like it!). It can be a powerful drug. If the guy's using it every weekend, you're kinda setting yourself up for some problems.

If he can say, not use for a month, if you were to ask him... then I'd say maybe he's not an addict (still might be though). More likely than not, he'd refuse to. He'd tell you it's just fun. It's not a problem. He can stop whenever he wants, but just doesn't want to etc. But he probably won't just say "ok babe, no problem" and stick to it.

If he is a problem coke user, that shit can get really bad. If he is an addict who keeps it on the weekends, shit might not get worse than it is.

I am biased here. No question about it. But in my experience, coke is either got control of you, or you can stop without giving it a second thought (I"ve known people like that. But they didn't use it every weekend).

Coke and alcohol go together (chemically enhance each other by creating a different compound in the blood). It is very often a drug that is used when someone is already drinking. It's very common to mix the two.

Cocaine can make you say and do things that might be outside of your regular personality (especially around being aggressive, or getting into fights). But it's not that he isn't aware of what he's saying to you, or doesn't remember the next day. Don't worry about that part. He means it. The concern is whether the guys in any shape to be a decent partner (he may be, it depends on his usage and whether or not he's an addict, or someone who can let it go easily).

Cocaine addiction can make a person lie, to cover up continued usage. I remember lying right to my best friends face about continuing to use coke (something I would never ever do about anything else). It's a powerful drug. But it doesn't make a person inclined to lie in general. It's just addict behavior... and a super addictive drug.

Some people, again, are able to use it in moderation. But they should be able to just not use it for an extended period of time without any problem. Many people find it extremely addictive. But it really depends on the person.

I can tell you that it's not a matter of choosing to be able to use it without it being addictive. It either is, or isn't. It's not something anyone can control.

The single biggest piece of advice I can give you: Do not ever try cocaine. I regret doing so, 20 years ago, more than anything. One time really did open a door I didn't know I was opening at the time. If I had the power to change one decision it would be to try cocaine. Just don't.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for dealing with a booger sugar or nose candy user all I say say is I wish you the best of luck & as for the guy you are seeing don’t get too attached because the odds are he’s going to OD & before he OD’s you are probably going to be missing money or if you invite him over some of your stuff might go missing because let’s face it coke isn’t free & he’s going to tell you whatever you want to hear.

[PeachyPie93]

Druggies always say they love you lol Don't believe it.. Dump him especially since you don't even do drugs wtf? lol

[jahaims]

Who cares what he feels. Dating a druggie is stupid af

[Gaylordslav]

No it just means they love drugs as much as they love u. You used the drugs with them too dont act innocent and used

[Saamee]

Never know about anyone's feeling.😊