Do people mean the things they say while on cocaine?

[Anonymous]

The guy I'm involved with always says hurtful things when he uses cocaine. He gets aggitated wants to leave says he never cared for me and has never had feelings for me.

When he is not on drugs he is the other way around, then he tells me he has feelings for me and is really sweet.

Does cocaine make someone say hurtful things they don't mean?

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

I would assume like any addict that that might be things he actually thinks. And besides there's nothing he's going to love more than his drug of choice till he straightens himself out. Thirdly don't be in this relationship, it's toxic and will drag you down bc addicts can really only help themselves. Don't be sexually active with a coke addict apparently the drug can get carried over in their semen and you could get gravely ill.

[Anonymous]

My first thought is... he's a drug addict, GET OUT of this relationship.
AND, he's emotionally abusive while on those drugs... seriously, GET OUT!
I really hope you do.

[DanAG]

Warning Flags!
Warning Flags!

Danger, proceed with caution.
Better yet, run away. Fast!

He's doing too much coke. Way too much. That's an extremely addictive drug and he likes it too much. It's messing him up. Don't think you're going to change him. It sounds like the drug already has control of him. (and for the record, yes I've done coke and I can tell you how freaking addictive it is.)

[Asker]

Yes you are right. When you were on cocaine, would you say hurtful things? Does it made you agressive and restless?

[DanAG]

I never let it get that far. Or I guess I should say I could never afford to let it get that far. It's very expensive. One time I blew an entire weeks pay on coke in less than a half hour.

Aggression and restlessness are signs of any kind of stimulant drug. I think things like aggression and saying hurtful things are at least partly because the stimulant brings out something that's already there. I think if someone is pretty laid back it would take a lot more drugs to bring that out than someone who is uptight. But to be honest it's been a heck of a long time since I've done any of that stuff so I don't remember a lot of detail.

[Anonymous]

Yes sometimes cocaine can in certain people make them say things their feeling but would usually not say. Especially on people that mask their emotions. But it can also enhance those feelings. Example if someone feels guilty it can bring to the point of tears, if they are angry it can make them want to fight.

[parkway]

Most any drug makes makes people tell more how they truly feel.