If you’re just ok and your partner is very attractive do you feel insecure?

[Anonymous]

Do you feel more confident when you are with someone on your same level of attractiveness?

do you feel more insecure when you date someone that appears to be way more attractive than you?

do you feel better and more secure when you date someone much less attractive than you?

I feel insecure when I date someone much more attractive than me

I actually feel more secure when I date someone much more attractive than me

I prefer dating someone my level or lower in attractiveness than me

[SteveSmith1985]

This is a crazy question to me. I wouldn't ever date someone unless I found them very attractive.

I am no less secure if everyone else also thinks she's very attractive. I assume she isn't only with me for my looks. Why would her being attractive make me feel less secure?

[NicholasRedone]

I'll be the only honest person it looks like - I voted yes I'm insecure (voted A) and yes some of its a little jealousy, a little insecurity, a little uncertainty - no wonder even "hot" women themselves don't go for the "hottest guy" other than a one nighter lol - because "every other woman" would be staring him down 👎🏻 👇🏻

[NicholasRedone]

However I'm secure in how I look - yet I don't believe I should "date down" 👎🏻

[PeachyPie93]

I feel insecure dating someone better looking than me because they could get 'better'. I like to date the same level as me face wise, never uglier tho lol.

[NicholasRedone]

@PeachyPie93 quite a way with words there lady chuckle chuckle 🤭🤭😂 - however I for one usually don't wanna be blindsided by women who'll "fake comparability with me" only to have strung me along

[EmmaMary]

With being an extremely assertive and confident woman... I have absolutely no qualms or concerns about this whatsoever.

[NicholasRedone]

@EmmaMary would you say you're a butch woman or a girly girl woman? Strong arm 💪🏻 or lip gloss? 👄

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[NicholasRedone]

@EmmaMary yes indeed you've been award the MHO not by me lol but what about my question please?

[NicholasRedone]

@EmmaMary look I understand if you just don't like men or men like me who like to ask questions and to seek answers lol 😹😆 I mean hell, a fair few women seem to not like men even shielding their eyes and averting their eyes - lol 😆 - I often feel sorry for them and visually I'll look down on their heads, never glaring them down lol 😂😆 👀👀👀

[EmmaMary]

@NicholasRedone

In answer to your question, I am indeed an extremely feminine woman.

[NicholasRedone]

@EmmaMary thank you for the kind reply : personally I'd say a very feminine woman is submissive and works a simple job, never seeking authority or a leader role and finally is a very sub to her man ;) 😜

[EmmaMary]

@NicholasRedone

Really? Then please do enlighten me as to why I'm a forensic scientist... Which I most certainly do not consider to be a "simple job" as you call it.

In fact I will go as far as saying that I consider your comments most offensive indeed... Goodbye.

[serious]

I have always been single but to answer your question hypothetically no, I won't waste my time on insecurities and stuff like that

[Anonymous]

I wish I had a very attractive girlfriend, but unfortunately, I'm single, and I never had a date.

[Asker]

Me too kind of. My boyfriend is far away so I don’t even know if I can call him that officially and he’s soooooooo hot! Definitely out of my league but somehow I jumped onto his! 😳

[Opinion Owner]

Lucky you ;)
My "girlfriend" is imaginary :P

[xyzguy1296]

No , why would anyone feel insecure?

[Asker]

Because they’re much hotter than you? Like you feel even uglier next to them especially when a more attractive person than you passes by and you think your partner would make better couple with them?

[Anonymous]

Nope.