It's pretty strange I think. I mean if a girl is hot as fuck, I would think her confidence is sky high. But then again some super hot girls are so hot that no guys hit on them because men fear beautiful women, or at least fear rejection. So it's always weird to hear about a beautiful girl asking if she's ugly cuz no guys ever talk to her lol.
As far as guys go, it's not surprising. You can be a hot guy, but if your life never afforded you the opportunity to learn how to act around women, he might think he's a hideous monstronsity. In reality he just has a lack of social skills and women care more about social skills and confidence than looks.
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There is a certain category of people that are attractive and insecure... for them - the more attractive they are the more insecure they get...
why? - well when you have something that is valued you are constantly afraid for it to become unvalued by someone... leads to an obsession... almost like how a rich guy making money can't stop thinking of how he never wants to lose it and be poor again lol...
Everyone has a different opinion of what is 'attractive' to what isn't; whilst some find George Clooney a piece of hot stuff, someone else may prefer Tom Hanks... Then there's another side to this; is arrogance attractive? More often than you'd think, people you consider attractive, won't find themselves attractive and that is what makes them insecure... No amount of appreciation for their appearance on your part, can completely 'fix' their insecurities... We all have our moments of feeling 'attractive' whether it's on a good hair day or when you put on a new outfit. It's subjective if you're otherwise insecure about your appearance.
Ofcourse not. Being considered attractive by 9/10 people and being insecure about yourself are two different things. Attractive isn't a universal good. It's different for everyone. Being insecure has no direct link to that. Being insecure has something to do with how you view yourself. The whole world can find that you're attractive, but if you don't feel that way that isn't weird. We judge ourselves harder 'cause we want to improve ourselves and we see ourselves everyday, 24/7. It's far from weird to me, I'd say it's even more normal than not being insecure about anything about yourself.
Yes, especially when its women look like this:
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Like seriously, you're the type of woman most men want or daydream about. But because they're to scared and think you're untouchable, they will settle for women they think are safer/easier to get. So chill you're at the top of dating chain
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No, not anymore. I used to. But I've come to understand that a person's self-image has very little to do with their actual image. What I mean by that is that a person doesn't necessarily see themselves the way the rest of us see them. A beautiful person may believe themselves to be ugly while an ugly person may find themselves beautiful. Look at Donald Trump. He's an old, fat, dumpy looking creature with the worst orange hairpiece but he obviously thinks he's the greatest thing that ever walked the earth. Self-image is generated inside, not outside.
attractive people have the advantage of being a little insecure and have it actually make them more attractive. people will describe seeing an attractive person showing quirks as humanizing. think about that word, "humanizing", as if attractive people weren't human before? and when someone is ugly and insecure, i guess they are TOO human? It goes to show how much we idolize physical attractiveness in our world, as if they were above human before they let their guard down. when we see someone attractive show flaws, it puts them lower on the pedestal and almost make us feel like we got a shot.
No I don't. I find this happens because they are a threat in others eyes. And may cause people around them to gang up or create negative emotions, (within internally or external, people are not deaf to the group talking), from being soloed out of conversations.
Why? Beauty has nothing to do with it. i'm beautiful by people's word but never had positive feedback by men due to being very shy and socially awkward. after that my cofidence was only a downward spiral. got secluded in my self and now have zero friends and meet up with noone. i've seen other women and even know men who could be models and are virgin in their late twenties and thirties or had like a couple of boyfriends/girlfriends.
No, because I see it a lot. Insecurities aren't only caused by not being attractive. Sometimes other girls get their heart broken by a guy and it sort of leaves them feeling as if they aren't good enough. It takes some time to get over it. Or if someone is attractive but can't seem to do well in school or land a job. They could be insecure about that. There's a lot that someone can be insecure about and I think everyone has insecurities to some degree.
No, they have their own set of societal expectations to either live up to or break free from. Nobody's life will always be roses and sunshine and beauty doesn't equate to perfection. Society has a way of making you feel like you're inadequate and it can sneak up on the best of us.
Everybody gets insecure, so no, it's not weird. To ignorant people, yes, it will. People thing attractive people are everything. But did anybody ever stop to think that attractive people didn't ask for all that attention, and be told to do and act out with unrealistic expectations? What do people really expect? It's only human. They're not gods. Treat them as human.
Not at all. All kinds of people, attractive or not, can be insecure. You don't know what's going in their head let alone what caused them to be that way.
It's the same shit with people saying how can rich and famous people be depressed or suicidal? Same thing.
Being physically attractive isn't the be all end all.no not at all. the things that a person goes through breeds these. but i think its better to have a few insecurities then be fine just showing your body off to everyone
only when they're insecure about their looks. But there's a ton of other things to be insecure about..
I don't think so. For some, the reason for their insecurity could also be caused by their appearance. If someone were to bully them in order to put them down, and they aren't able to stand up for themselves, I don't find it weird that they're insecure
Hmm, yes.
Just like when ugly people are overconfident, it's weird. The happy medium is knowing where you stand and not caring about it.No. People are insecure for a lot of reasons that have nothing to do with how they look. Most of it usually relates to their family lives.
No, it's a mental thing and doesn't actually depend much on one's looks. people who are insecure about their appearance usually have deeper insecurities too, and that's where the physical insecurities stem from.
I did, but it makes sense. Everyone is insecure, but attractive people are sometimes put in the spotlight and that can't make it better.
Looks doesn't equal self confidences, it's just good genes.Nope. People are insecure about a lot of different things, not just their looks. In fact a lot of really beautiful people are also shallow people, since they can typically get a lot of attention without any kind of effort.
What, they can't be insecure about their personality or social skills or interests?
I'm very suspicious tbh. Like... sometimes I just think they're attention seeking. It's a tough one, though. I sometimes get told I'm quite good looking, but I'd say at maximum I'm a 5/10. Genuinly. Like... more close to a 4.5/10
Naw, cause some attractive people ain't got an easy life, and ish don't play out like it does on T. V, or how people say an attractive persons life should play out.. Just look at all the pretty girls that ask how they look..
I wouldn't. They're humans too as well as can have it hard if anything... things can be scary sometimes if your not sure what to expect..😐 no ones perfect at the end of the day lol but even so, some of those imperfections make them worthwhile.
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