No, because they're people just like Anyone else. Guy A can be considered hot to you but to him he still feels like a nerd who struggled to get a girl back in high school or something.
They are insecure because they don't trust people. The same sex see them as a threat. The opposite sex may use them for sex and approach them then break their heart. It's like the more money you have the more you fear robbery
Huh? If you said "they feel insecure because of their looks" then that's not always true. I know a friend who's pretty and knows she's pretty but she feels insecure because she doesn't feel like she's a good basketball player. So that's not always the case. And if your question is revolving around that scenario could you please specify that so I don't assume you mean attractive people being insecure about what's inside
It's more common than you think. An insecure good looking guy maybe getting less girly action that a funny average looking guy... and it causes a nasty cycle of more rejection. He's wondering why they hell is he is lonely.
Good looking women might be used to getting their way all the time... but some people might not take them seriously. Or they might get some unexpected hostility (usually from other jealous women).
they say beauty is in the eyes of the beholder so no I don't find it weird. I was finding myself to be ugly until I heard so much people saying I'm cute, pretty, etc...
Yes. In women especially. Serioulsy. You've won the genetic lottery. YOu are hot AND you are woman. This is the best, what you can be. I don't even have words. I guess you can be insecure, and thank god for that, but still.
No. Wrong. Thank god, for their insecurity, since that’s the only thing, what’s stopping them from unleashing their full potential. They are hot, so it’s little bit (irony, a lot) bigger, than mine, for example. It’s like when someone has high tech weapon. That gives him advantage, but he doesn’t know, how to use it, so that’s good for the rest of us. Now, this might seem like fucked up opinion, but think about it. Hot people in general, but girls mostly, can just get away with stuff, just because of their looks. I’ve seen it in action. Problem is sexual attraction, in guys mostly, to be honest. So, if there is some hot woman, who knows, how to use her looks, she can get anything. That’s not good. But she isn’t the problem, rest of us are.
Well kind of makes you wonder why they are insecure. They are attractive people but yet they have insecurities about their appearances just makes no sense but yes it happens.
I hate to say this but yes I do. Not all of them, but some of them. Especially those girls that take a selfie, think they look ugly or fat, yet post it on every social media platform they're signed up to.
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No. Being attractive doesn't negate your humanity. We all go through a lot of the same things, bleed red blood and have our issues. Hot or not.
No, because they're people just like Anyone else. Guy A can be considered hot to you but to him he still feels like a nerd who struggled to get a girl back in high school or something.
Not really to be honest in most cases of women I've dated that was the case.
the god-fearing guy dates? ok.
@mullahstan What?
And how is that even relevant here?
Lol don't mind him he is a troll😂
I blocked him
@archiz Lol will do.
No. I find it weird when unattractive people are confident.
Hahahhaha
They are insecure because they don't trust people. The same sex see them as a threat. The opposite sex may use them for sex and approach them then break their heart. It's like the more money you have the more you fear robbery
The more money you have, the better the security you buy
@animus1988 that's right. It s just a metaphor. You will be more careful when you have more money in your wallet and be ware it will be stolen
Either way having "alot of money" is a high class problem. You could have money. So be grateful
Have no money **
@animus1988 ok so feel grateful of being attractive. Lol it's better than have no appearance
Thats my point. Dont feel like a victim for being "used". Learn to be grateful that people of the opposite sex want you
Not at all because that's just shallow to tell attractive people they should have confidence simply because of their looks
How is that shallow lol
Because you're judging them based off their looks and not the person they are inside
But theuvfeel insecure because if their looks lol
Huh? If you said "they feel insecure because of their looks" then that's not always true. I know a friend who's pretty and knows she's pretty but she feels insecure because she doesn't feel like she's a good basketball player. So that's not always the case. And if your question is revolving around that scenario could you please specify that so I don't assume you mean attractive people being insecure about what's inside
I know that's long winded haha so let me know if I confused you
It's more common than you think. An insecure good looking guy maybe getting less girly action that a funny average looking guy... and it causes a nasty cycle of more rejection. He's wondering why they hell is he is lonely.
Good looking women might be used to getting their way all the time... but some people might not take them seriously. Or they might get some unexpected hostility (usually from other jealous women).
i probably used to find it somewhat strange before understanding that looks alone don't necessarily dictate a person's sense of security.
they say beauty is in the eyes of the beholder so no I don't find it weird. I was finding myself to be ugly until I heard so much people saying I'm cute, pretty, etc...
Yes, I do. Because I always think that they don't have reasons to be insecure (if we are only talking about their looks).
Yes. In women especially. Serioulsy. You've won the genetic lottery. YOu are hot AND you are woman. This is the best, what you can be. I don't even have words. I guess you can be insecure, and thank god for that, but still.
Thank god for That? 😂
i think he's saying thank god that their are good looking girls with low selfesteem who will screw guys that are lower value than them
@Mr-Kabuki ahh 😑
No. Wrong.
Thank god, for their insecurity, since that’s the only thing, what’s stopping them from unleashing their full potential. They are hot, so it’s little bit (irony, a lot) bigger, than mine, for example.
It’s like when someone has high tech weapon. That gives him advantage, but he doesn’t know, how to use it, so that’s good for the rest of us.
Now, this might seem like fucked up opinion, but think about it. Hot people in general, but girls mostly, can just get away with stuff, just because of their looks. I’ve seen it in action. Problem is sexual attraction, in guys mostly, to be honest. So, if there is some hot woman, who knows, how to use her looks, she can get anything. That’s not good. But she isn’t the problem, rest of us are.
Yes, but I guess a lot of people view themselves as less attractive than they really are. We are our own best critics.
Not really. Everyone's insecure. But I will admit that I will not take their insecurities as seriously as I would those of an unattractive person.
Well kind of makes you wonder why they are insecure. They are attractive people but yet they have insecurities about their appearances just makes no sense but yes it happens.
Isn't everyone, it's normal. The only thing I find weird is when people go out of their way get validation especially from strangers
You mean celebrities?
More so people are platform such as social media
You mean taking bikini pictures in the hopes of getting validation on Instagram for example.
With extremely attractive people yes. But they are also human afterall. So I try my best to assure them.
No... I generally believe everyone has some degree of insecurity... you just have to tweak the right spot to find it.
When they are insecure about their looks, i personally think they are trying to get more attention !!
Yea but if someone needs attention isn't it another form if insecurity since they need constant validation
I agree it is !! But my point is that mostly its not for validation but for attention. !!
I hate to say this but yes I do. Not all of them, but some of them. Especially those girls that take a selfie, think they look ugly or fat, yet post it on every social media platform they're signed up to.
You're currently trying to build your confidence lol.
Aren't we all hahaha
You know what really builds confidence? Sending me nudes
Suck ny dick
You have a dick? Lol
I 'll shown you in my nudes hols on
Pls don't. I don't like diks
@ archiz woah could i get some of that too?