What makes you fall in love more out of the five love languages?

[Simslover92]

For me, it's definitely physical touch. I feel like I bond faster when I'm physically connected to someone.

Physical touch

Words of affirmation

Quality Time

Acts of Service

Receiving Gifts

[Finchie40]

Physical touch and words of affirmation, is my love language as well , To be honest I can no longer be in a relationship with a girl that doesn’t have the same love language as me , I been there and done it , and it didn’t work out , because when push comes to shove , I was more frustrated and miserable over anything else. I will only continue a relationship with a girl , that is on the same page as me , when it comes to intimacy and affection and words of affirmation , Being with someone opposite of you Sucks big time , and it’s sadly a waste of time , I don’t hate the girl , I just realize she isn’t the girl for me , especially if intimacy and affection isn’t important to her. When I meet a girl that is on the same page as me , intimacy and affection isn’t even an issue between us whatsoever , because we both are fulfilling each others’ wants and needs. I honestly won’t even masturbate anymore if I am with the right girl , cuz I am being fulfilled and feeling wanted and valued and loved. If I have to resort to masturbating in a relationship , then to me something is wrong on that relationship. I’m not saying she has to have sex with me every single day but definitely more than once a week , or once every 2 weeks , if a girl doesn’t make me her priority , she will not be mine. Life is too short to stay with someone that doesn’t value you like you value them. Love only grows when 2 people choose each other and prioritize each other over every one else in this world. If I do not have those feelings with a girl , she will not be my girlfriend period

[BarryLiverstone]

Physical touch. Follow that up with quality time. All the languages are important and bonding with a partner is special. But the intimacy of touch and that space is so intoxicating tbh

[Simslover92]

Indeed it is.

[7Phoenix7]

It's words of affirmation for me. Whisper in my ear, write me letters... tell me sweet nothings that mean everything to me. Lol

And quality time and physical touch is strong second

[Simslover92]

Words of affirmation is definitely up there for me. That's probably my second one.

[Screenwriter]

WIth quality time you have time to display physical affection, give words of affirmation, and perform acts of service.

With enough time the other aspects can develop.

[ohsheeT]

I to love the Physical touch but to be honest you have to have all 5 and more they all work together hand and hand all of these is just what i do its who I am. To me none if these are a love language it's just who everyone should be.. it's day in and day out. Who I choose to be

And with each one of them and many other things to you share them with people at any given moment and you donr even know it because you have been doing it so long not even know it or looking at it that way

But weather it's Physical or energy touch.
They to work hand and hand

[RavVid]

None of the above. My love language - and I think for a lot of guys - is telling a girl what to do.

Doubtless the majority of female readers are now thinking CONTROLLER, MANSPLAINER and figuratively spitting at this point.

But there is more depth than those feminist don't-need-a-man thought processes.

For a start it winnows out girls that we can add value to with our advice and if she respects us enough to listen. Example a girl rang me bemoaning her car had broken down in a car park. I could have got her out of it for $200. Instead of which she made a series of irrevocable emotive decisions that cost her $2000 in the end.

So what?

So I have a girl that doesn't respect me enough to listen to advice. That means I can't add value to her life even though I could (saving $1800) in this case. There is no point in me attempting to be in her life from that point. Love options cancelled.

I think receptivity for advice should be in the list.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Don't be so shy when discriminating, male readers can also have fun in spitting, figuratively then, at your rant, I know I do lol

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't think I can point to just one thing... if there will be too much of one and not enough another it can have a totally opposite effect...

[Orion84]

I'm definitely in the physical touch category.

Words of affirmation would be second.

[ravagesavage]

This is a tough one. Like damn. What kept me around was really the acts of service, how I truly knew a girl loved me and I fall in love that way alone.

[septemberintherain]

Quality time which involves physical touch and words of affirmation 🥰

[aceleon]

İ am physical when it comes to relationships of every kind.

[TonyMetal___86]

Physical touch is sexual and for sure is affectionate but real love comes from acts and care!
Physical touch is just a part of it, for example a physical touch means nothing to me without love...

[WhitneySnow]

The top three but especially words of affirmation

[talka20]

Physical touch comes first... then gifts... then services... the quality times... then words

[Emmytexrex]

Physical touch intertwined with quality time and then acts of service there is something about physical touch that just I can't explain

[scott04sa22]

My old supervisor was over me on a deeper level. I didn't realize it at the time when I was heart broken from my ex-girlfriend

[scott04sa22]

My supervisor was attractive to my energy that was sending off to her that was getting her attention like crazy

[WonderingManII]

Quality time, causes me to build up more feelings for the person.

[YourExLover69]

Quality time and physical touch are top most important to me.

[Apulu_backagain]

Why is food not an option? 😭

[Simslover92]

Lol.

[Anonymous]

If she's my type of girl, it can be any of those.

I voted A, I agree with you, physical touch can be very special.

[nawtee_me]

It would have to be physical touch since I enjoy holding hands and touching so much.

[Bklynbadboy12]

For me it quality time I need to see where there head is

[Apple1996]

Words of affirmation

[slatyb]

Intellectual compatibility.

[Sunrising]

I think it's all in the eyes.

[Jay-_-]

Physical touch, by far.

[PeterLegg91]

Words of affirmation and physical touch deffo

[Jerre]

I go for physical touch

[Eempriyanka]

I like when his mouth touches my body

[Ariascaravens]

Physical touch for me

[TheSpaceGnome]

Quality time

[dudeinohio]

Physical touch

[fish5505_87]

Agreed!

[Anonymous]

Words