Guys, I've been single my entire life, literally never dated, no guys has ever come up to me and officially asked me, what could be the reason?

[Prairie_Flow3r]

I'm a female 23 years of age, Im not the msot out going and I just started college this year, but I feel unattractive because I feel like no guy is interested in me and that life in terms of the aspect of experiencing love is passing me by. I don't think I'm extremely ugly, so I'm absiclaky asking for some perspective on the matter.

[ohsheeT]

Well this is what I believe I don't know you
Have never talked with you

This is about you and the power you have within and what I'm about to say. Only you know if it's true or not . so you have to be 100 % honest with your self

I don't know if you will understand this or not but if your honest with your self you just might

We are our thoughts. What we think and believe comes true if you pay attention

So before college there were many days abd nights you would think about all the things that could happen from being scared or lonely. Dreaming of meeting someone dreaming of being beautiful to get a guy to notice.

And telling your self this is going to happen I'm not ugly. I like myself and there's no reason why some guy feels the same way I do it's going to happen it's a new start and and way can't it happen

So just think back and try to remember all the things you would thing about before you started college

Ok so now it's a new day. A new school. And new people new experience and experiences

So let's forget the past it's done it's overnight
Something new has just started

So we are our thoughts for the rest of the school year. Your thoughts have to be. I am beautiful. I am smart. I am kind. I am confident and I just. I deserve to be loved and I deserve to love somebody.

Because it's a brand new day. The past is gone, so I'm starting right going to believe in myself.100% and I am beautiful. I don't care what anybody says thinks are. Does I say? I'm beautiful so I am. And for the rest of the school year you have to say that to yourself at least once twice 3 times a day. We are our thoughts.

And we become our thoughts.
Let go of the past. Forget about everything that you said in your are a brand new person with a brand new start. You are beautiful. You are kind. You have a beautiful heart.

Even tho I have never met you Your question tells me who you are just by your words.
O have that confidence enough with the past

Because now you're going to start dating the past is gone today's today. The moment is the moment and you are your thoughts. Believe in yourself Stop doubting yourself and starthe impositive with your thoughts

Because whatever you said Or you would dream of or fantasize about before school.
Just happened to you. It will happen again over and over and over if you believe it if you think it it is your thoughts.

Have you ever played sports or did something that you liked? And you were just in that zone in that moment And it was so real and everything great was happening

It's the same thing with your thoughts , whatever you Believe in believing it, look at it as if it's already happened. Energy is energy and it will work with you

This is a crazy way to answer your question but believe me It will work

Whatever you said to yourself before school actually started whatever you were thinking whatever thoughts you have are coming true. So no matter what, let go of the past, believe in today and believe in yourself.
If you can think it, you can do it if it is a thought. It will happen.

[Prairie_Flow3r]

Sir, I understand but I also don't understand, the only thing I'm sure of is that you truly captured the way I feel in a nutshell, and I thank you for that.

[ohsheeT]

Well, thank you. I can feel you from here.. and it's time to step out of the nut shell become the butterfly and live. There's only one thing holding you back. And it's time to let go be the smat, wise, confident person you have built just for this moment the time is here. Your time is here and now except it Acknowledge it Welcome it and love it. Time for part 2 of life. Don't hold back like you did part one.. Because there are many, many more parts to come

[Spencer10]

Well you are still young... no reason to panic. It seems to me that society and technology is making people more isolated and making it more difficult to meet people. I would maybe suggest taking a few more risks when in social situations. Perhaps do not be afraid to take the initiative sometimes. Yes its scary and yes he may say no... but he may also say yes. There is only one way to find out.

[bowenw]

Don’t give up. You are still very young. Do your best to do things where you can meet guys so they get to know you. If you are not comfortable asking guys out, consider flirting if you meet a guy you like so he knows you are interested.

[Anonymous]

Why should they?

Serious question. Because you're a woman? You need a better reason than that.

[Vegasrunner]

Could be your appearance.

[yotaman99]

You haven’t asked any guys?

[Prairie_Flow3r]

Yeah the fear of rejection is strong

[yotaman99]

I know how you feel I get rejected a lot myself

[Prairie_Flow3r]

I never even got rejected yet cause I never put myself out there but the fear alone is enough to deter me.

[yotaman99]

Well lucky you but you won’t get anywhere if you don’t try?