The woman I'm dating can't stand children, is that bad?

[Anonymous]

They tend to get on her nerves, she admitted she doesn't like them.

[Screenwriter]

IT's bad if you're dating her for a long-term relationship and you WANT children. Have you asked her why they get on her nerves?

Maybe she had to raise younger siblings because there were many children at home and her parents couldn't handle them all. When someone young is burdened with those kind of responsibilities, they may balk at the idea of doing so permanently.

And you know helping children is your job until you're dead. The responsibilities differ as time goes on, but you are always a parent, and if you can, you should help your children, young or grown.

If she doesn't see that as something she wants to do, and you would like to be a parent, she might only be Miss Right Now.

[Asker]

Yeah, that's why, she had to take care of her younger siblings and they got on her nerves. Now she can't stand children in general. I don't dislike children, but I don't want them either, albeit for a different reason. I just wanna be able to travel with her and it just be the two of us without the responsibility of parenting.

[Screenwriter]

Well, what're you worried about? Sounds like neither of you are interested in kids!

[itsannalee]

I also don’t like kids, especially the ugly one.
It might sound new to you, but not all kids or baby are cute.

[serious]

Yes of course it is bad. If you like children and she does not then it is a red flag.

[Asker]

I don't dislike children, but I also don't want them, if that makes sense.

[serious]

Yes.

[zagor]

If you want kids someday, yes. If you have nieces and nephews you're close to, yes.

[EmmaMary]

That's entirely her prerogative... So if you don't like it, move on... Simples.

[septemberintherain]

Only if you want a family!

[alice55]

To me that's a red flag.

[Ironic_Method]

That depends on if you want kids in my opinion