Is it a red flag that my girlfriend doesn't like children?

[Anonymous]

She doesn't like children, and they don't seem to like her in return, she was once called a "doo doo head" by a child.

[ohsheeT]

Hey she could have been wearing a brown hat you know there's a reason for kids to say what they say

But there's no red flag you know it before you even got together so no it's not a red flag whatsoever the red flag is you knowing something and then bringing it up because you want to say doodoo head can't make her look bad for something she already told you

[Finchie40]

Then she isn’t the girl for you , if you want to have kids’ one day , it doesn’t make her a bad person , she just chooses not to like or want kids’. So you are best to end things with her and go find yourself a girl that wants kids’ or accept the fact that she doesn’t want kids’ and stay with her , that’s up to you

[EmmaMary]

Well as long as you don't want children yourself, I really can't see a problem.

However, you need to remember that everyone has a prerogative what they choose to want, or not want in life.

[Asker]

One of my goals is to someday be a loving husband to her, but I don't desire being a parent.

[EmmaMary]

Well problem solved then.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Nikki1989]

That really depends on your own personal values and future goals, but remember anyone who doesn't like kids probably has many insecurities about other things as well.

[Asker]

She doesn't like kids, while I dread the thought of being a parent.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Perhaps if you want to marry her and start a family, but not if you remain boyfriend and girlfriend.

[Asker]

Goal for me is to marry and not start a family.

[beefcakebradybatson]

OK, but that's sorta hard.

[Asker]

How so?

[MzAsh]

Some women prefer other paths. Nothing wrong with that.

[bolverk]

Yes its a Red Flag, If the two of you are dating seriously, looking towards marriage, the she has to be able to create a good relationship with your children, who after all have to be your primary concern.

[Asker]

We are looking towards marriage, but I'm not looking towards having children, I'd rather just be a husband.

[KrakenAttackin]

Marriage without children is pointless. Just be boyfriend and girlfriend, there is no reason for you to assume the huge extra risk.

[bolverk]

I'd take notice of the children not liking her, children respond to people on an instinctual, they are not taken in by the 'false faces'.

[Asker]

She might have a darker side, you think?

[bolverk]

Could be, children pick up 'vibes' that adults ignore

[Purpleronnie]

Doesn’t have to mean anything to not like other children , your own is different and if she also doesn’t want kids then only you can decide if that’s an issue


Not a red flag though , just a personal choice or a biological situation

[KrakenAttackin]

You want a chick like this to be the mother of your children? No thanks. She will be a terror.

[David5668]

Where is it written that she has to? It’s her choice and right. If you’re thinking long-term-family and kids, it might be a discussion that you both need to have.

[yvanvangoth]

If you want children and she somehow doesn't or gives clear signs that she does not, I'd say you're wasting your time.

[lorenzomichael]

What do you mean doesn’t like them? or do you mean doesn’t want them? Cause if she don’t want them that’s cool. But if she hates them, then you need to get away from her who doesn’t like children.

[Asker]

They annoy her easily after she babysat her siblings for years.

[lorenzomichael]

I believe children are the closest thing we have here on earth to heaven so innocent and pure not like adults crazy and fucked up.

[Flower7]

Only if you want children.

[Asker]

I don't dislike children per say, just the idea of being a parent is not appealing to me.

[Flower7]

Then I don’t see why this would be an issue.

[genericname85]

i mean if you want children, then probably yeah. otherwise no.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Depends on you and how badly you want children. If you don't like them, then you're meant to be

[demuregirl]

As long as it’s not to the point of harming or endangering children. But it could reveal her nurturing qualities, would she care for you?

[Asker]

She does, she just gets easily annoyed by kids.

[brayden2010]

Maybe if you want kids.

[FunkyMonkee]

Maybe she needs to try other ways to cook `em.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Duh why are still dating her

[Asker]

Having kids isn't a goal for me.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Sometimes goals are met with reality what if you guys do have kids on accident and she abandons you with the child

[Asker]

If we do have a kid on accident, I don't plan on keeping it.

[KrakenAttackin]

That's a big red flag in my book.

[ilkeerol28]

It will raise the baby well for many years.

[Jmmmfi4]

WHY WOULD IT BE? DUMB QUESTION

[In_Trance]

Are you a child?

[Asker]

Nope.

[Anonymous]

Yes.