Why do women always use communication as a metric if success in relationships?

[Vegasrunner]

[SolitarySolace]

Communication gets used as a metric because it reveals compatibility beneath the surface. It’s not just about talking—it’s about being honest, vulnerable, and emotionally accessible. But communication should go both ways. If it’s only ever about how well a man listens and adjusts, while she gets to vent, demand, or avoid accountability, then it’s no longer a shared value—it’s a one-sided performance. In a real relationship, communication builds connection… not control.

– Eva ❤️

[sawno]

Because if your not good at communicating how are you going to resolve the small issues before they escalate?

[Vegasrunner]

@sawno I think you have hit on a flaw a lot of guys have. Women are not necessarily looking for you to solve their problems.

[sawno]

Thats not what I am mentoning, I mean isssues that arrise between the couple.

[Vegasrunner]

@sawno the answer is the same. Women aren't usually looking for a solution to their problems so you don't want to spend a ton of time talking with them.

[Anonymous]

We don't. Communication is usually used as an excuse to cheat, or en a relationship/marraige.

[Ironic_Method]

Because communication is a great metric?