4.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. LOL.
Oh, the easy answer to this is "Fatal Attraction".
If you've ever seen "Fatal Attraction", you will understand why...
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Ah, Fatal Attraction! That's a really interesting one to consider for a first date. On the surface, it might seem like a suspenseful thriller, which could be engaging. However, when you dig a little deeper into its themes, it definitely leans towards being a potentially bad choice for a first date for several reasons:
Themes of Infidelity and Obsession: The central conflict revolves around an extramarital affair and the terrifying consequences of obsession and possessiveness. This can be a really uncomfortable and potentially triggering topic for a first date, especially if either person has personal experiences with infidelity or difficult relationship dynamics. It doesn't exactly scream "light and fun."
Intense and Unsettling Tone: The movie is designed to be suspenseful and ultimately quite disturbing. The escalating intensity and the portrayal of Glenn Close's character can be genuinely frightening and leave viewers feeling anxious or uneasy. That's probably not the vibe you're going for on a first date where you want to feel comfortable and connected.
Potential for Awkward Discussion: Imagine leaving the theater and trying to make small talk after witnessing such a fraught and emotionally charged story. It could easily lead to awkward or heavy conversations about relationships, trust, and boundaries before you even know each other well.
It Paints a Negative Picture of Relationships: The film doesn't exactly inspire optimism about romantic connections. It highlights the potential for things to go very wrong, which isn't the most encouraging message for a budding relationship.
In short, while Fatal Attraction is a compelling film, its themes of betrayal, obsession, and intense psychological distress make it a risky choice for a first date. It has the potential to create an uncomfortable atmosphere and lead to conversations that are too heavy for getting to know someone new.You'd likely be better off choosing something lighter and more conducive to positive interaction and easy conversation.
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1 ySilence of the lambs, lol.
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Pride and Prejudice… hear me out I’m a lover girl to a tea like I love that movie so much and if I were to sit with a man to watch this on a FIRST DATE I’d prolly gaslight myself into thinking something more than it actually is bc it always make me all giddy and happy whenever I watch or read it so yea I can’t risk it I gotta think clearly on a first date right😭
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Haha I understand.
313 opinions shared on Dating topic. Anything super depressing lol or controversial. I watched "Get Out" yesterday with a close friend but I'd definitely avoid movies that bring in the controversial topics like racism, politics, etc.
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Same here.
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3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. LOL that’s actually a good movie , I wouldn’t complain about it on an first date lol
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Lol I would just because it's dealing with rape. I actually had a first encounter with a guy watching that movie and it was awkward to say the least.
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I like those movies also just because of the revenge factor. Im not normally interested in that genre because i find it distastefull.
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Well that’s not good @Simslover92 , the rape part is crazy but her revenge is better 😊
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Indeed it is
Anonymous(45 Plus)1 y
1) Horror. Usually I can’t get a woman to go at all, and of course, horror is out. Now I’m having vision problems, so I find myself unable to watch horror films with the quick cuts, strobe type lighting.
2) raunchy comedy.
3) action is probably out.
4) A historical movie based on real events - unless you KNOW the ending, and the ending is upbeat. I saw Valkyrie (2008) with a girl I liked… not knowing what happened (besides it probably didn’t fully succeed (knowing a little about WWII))… the ending was… depressing.
Actually, movies are kind of out anyway… I’ve had issues with multiple dates/girlfriends promising that if I watch their “chick flick” first, she will happily see a movie I like (then what a coincidence, that never happens); so I’m done seeing something SHE wants first (unless I genuinely want to see it, too). Besides, you can’t really talk or get to know each other (unless you do dinner and a movie or movie and long walk), and, if you end up loving the movie they hated, or you laughed at something “you weren’t supposed to,” it might kill the possibility of a second date very quickly, before you can really get to know each other.11 Reply- 1 y
That's so true.
1 yBroke Back Mountain
I was in a another country and I couldn't read the language. I figured, from the picture, it would be a Clint Eastwood sort of flick.
Brahhhh... I wanted to feel her pussy lips bad, but I don't think that choice in a movie helped me at all. I fumbled that pussy hardcore 200% full retard style.
I think she understood that was not a movie I wanted to see... and so I got a second date. So here is some unwanted and unasked for extra dating advice... when you're on a date with a Japanese girl, don't try to explain to her why dropping nukes on them was fucking awesome.
27 ReplyCan you please elaborate on how ruining any part of this planet with nukes is a good thing... I fail to understand how in any way this could be a good thing in any way possible
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@Communicationisking You literally are trying to pick up the girl's place where I already admitted to fucking up. Stop being gay.
Sorry I apologize for being so gay... guessing you didn't get a third date
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@Communicationisking Yeah no shit Sherlock. I fucked up, it was a story about me fucking up, and you pointed out that I fucked up like it was some sort of revelation in the Bible or something. Sorry I called you gay but dude, please... let the meaning of me being a fuck up not get reduced by your ego to get a chance at calling me a fuck up get in the way. I'm obviously pointing out EXACTLY how I fucked up and you're just pointing out I fucked up. It's not needed bro... I know I fucked up.
I don't need a shame session for it. But if you really feel you have to... be that guy that should've let some Karen do it for you first. I am truly sorry that my comment made you feel this way... I am not egotistical and I did not intend to harm you in any way but I am still confused as to how anyone could ever think what you said to her let alone say it to anyone.
If we were face to face having this discussion I'd be shaking your hand if you wanted to and just try move on and talk some positive stuff- 1 y
@Communicationisking That's the problem with the written word. I meant it with a smile on my face and I'm just poking fun, but I didn't mean it to sound so serious. We're good... fist bump.
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5.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. Well, I would not go on a date. However, to hypothetically answer this question then the movie I would avoid will be
"Ghosts of girlfriends past". Although a big part of the movie gives importance to only sexual pleasure and flings and this completely contradicts with my core thinking as I always give importance to higher things like non-sexual type love and romance. However, towards the end the movie does send out a strong message.Nevertheless I would outright avoid this movie on first date.
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m 1 yYou mean what I'd never watch again, on a first date: Eraserhead
https://www.youtube.com/embed/oK-2_OsBe0s22 Reply- 1 y
A friend of mine went out with a woman and their first date was to Eraserhead, (their first time seeing it) I thought it was hilarious and knew he was in for an experience.
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I can confirm it's an experience, a very short term one 😂
1 yI would never go to a movie as a first date. That is for people who know each other well and can choose a movie that they both like.
A first date should always be a romantic evening candle lit dinner where they can dress nicely and sit opposite staring into each other's eyes.
As they become more comfortable then sit side by side in the restauraunt and hold hands under the table.
Going to movies is for people who know each other well. Holding hands is nice but not essential.
However I rather prefer to watch movies off DVDs at home but then I have a large TV and a 5 channel sound system. With the highish cost of going to cinemas it is usually cheaper to buy a Blu Ray DVD which can be viewed several times and then resold on.Also watching at home my companion can wear a nice satin or silky feeling long nightie which I do like to touch!
10 Reply740 opinions shared on Dating topic. @Simslover92 "HOLIDAY."... graphic sexual scenes, with the male using a simulated penis, forcing his girlfriend to go down on him and then fucking her, and somehow showing him ejaculating on her stomach... Looked so very real, it was scary.... Movie now on Netflix... to rent only
I did not know to expect that when I rented it.
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@Simslover92 I have seen all three "I spit on your grave" movies 1, 2, 3. Agree with you. Not on the first date.
Anonymous(18-24)1 yA boy in my class who was nice but very quiet took me to a movie I don't even remember what it was but it was very sensual it got me so hot when I didn't expect to. He got everything he wanted that night and I wasn't expecting that either. I wish I could remember what movie it was so I could see it again and see if it still has the same effect.
31 ReplyHow old were you when this happened? Did you ever see him again?
831 opinions shared on Dating topic. I think watching a movie on a first date is a bit of a cop out. It's a knife edge of potential fail because you never get to know the other
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That's very true but some people do it.
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Yeah me too.
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You and The Handsmaid Tale atm
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Yeah pretty much
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It really is a good show. You should check it out sometime
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Yep it's on Netflix. Black Mirror is cool too.
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Indeed it is.
18.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. “I Spit on Your Grave” is one of my favourite all-time movies. Ha!
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It's a great movie but just not for the first date.
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@Simslover92 Which version was it..."I spit...1, 2 or 3" where she bit off the head of his penis and spit it in his face and then split the shaft with the knife? ..."Just the tip... Sweetie" ...
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I've only seen the first one. Forgot what she did in that one. It was so long ago.
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@Simslover92 The 'revenge' one, as she was getting revenge for him killing her girlfriend. After she bit it off, she killed him
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Oh...
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Some say it’s a great movie & others want to blow their brains out & I guarantee if you watch it you won’t have a second date.
10 Reply 3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yeah thats definitely a bad one to watch on a first date lol
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Lol definitely
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u 1 yBefore my mom met my dad, she went on a movie date. The movie the guy chose?
12 ReplyWhat movie did your dad choose?
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@Communicationisking Dunno. Their "first date" was at a diner a month before they graduated from high school. They walked in as friends and simply left as a couple. No idea how that happened.
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1 yAny movie, because 1st date needs talking to decided if 2nd date, not any film. I agree with v1 here.
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1 yGone Girl
Rosamund Pike is a quite a fox, but that movie ruined her for me.
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1 ypoltergeist because I'd probably start humming to the theme song at the end
when the family gets rid of the tv10 Reply2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. I agree with your choice, that movie is definitely not for a first date.
20 Reply4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. I generally don't see movies as a good first date idea. So any movie, unless she asks me out and then it's her decision.
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1 yPink flamingos. Id have to ease a date into watching it.
10 Reply Action movie cuz I'll watch movie at that time not her😂😂
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1 yI would not watch, ‘He’s just not into you!’
20 Replyanything pornographic.
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1 yplanet of the apes
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m 1 yLanguage of Love ;-)
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1 yJack the Ripper.
10 Reply892 opinions shared on Dating topic. This Ten Commandments.
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1 yRequiem of a dream
10 Reply19.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Freddy Krueger
30 Reply3.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. movie with sex scene
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1 yMovie on first date... nah not my thing
10 Reply 8.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Scarface. too much profanity.
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1 yThat is a dog who created the movie
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1 yAny movie that I like lol
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1 yThe Terrifier.
10 Reply6.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. I wouldn't watch a movie on a first date
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1 y50 shades of gray
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1 ySchindler's list!
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Jerry Seinfeld did that.
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@Panthero80 lol, I forgot about that. Priceless.
1 yBlue Is the Warmest Color
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1 ysomething with a lot of sex.
10 ReplyAny movie related to cheating
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1 yAbout a serial killer 😆
10 ReplyI spit on your grave 2
.. or any smut film10 Reply797 opinions shared on Dating topic. Probably Salo. In fact, not on any date.
10 ReplyHostile or any Quentin Tarantino movie.
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1 y"Deepthroat"
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1 ysuperbad
10 Reply Porn
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1 yBoogie nights
10 Reply Any porno.
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1 yAn adult movie.
10 Reply10.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Centipede
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1 yHorror movies
10 Reply305 opinions shared on Dating topic. Sausage Party.
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1 yHuman centipede
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1 yThe break up
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1 yI loved that movie
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