What movie would you never watch on a first date?

Question

For me, it's "I Spit on Your Grave."

abc3643 · Accepted Answer

LOL.
Oh, the easy answer to this is "Fatal Attraction".
If you've ever seen "Fatal Attraction", you will understand why...
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What movie would you never watch on a first date?

From Google AI:

Ah, Fatal Attraction! That's a really interesting one to consider for a first date. On the surface, it might seem like a suspenseful thriller, which could be engaging. However, when you dig a little deeper into its themes, it definitely leans towards being a potentially bad choice for a first date for several reasons:

Themes of Infidelity and Obsession: The central conflict revolves around an extramarital affair and the terrifying consequences of obsession and possessiveness. This can be a really uncomfortable and potentially triggering topic for a first date, especially if either person has personal experiences with infidelity or difficult relationship dynamics. It doesn't exactly scream "light and fun."
Intense and Unsettling Tone: The movie is designed to be suspenseful and ultimately quite disturbing. The escalating intensity and the portrayal of Glenn Close's character can be genuinely frightening and leave viewers feeling anxious or uneasy. That's probably not the vibe you're going for on a first date where you want to feel comfortable and connected.
Potential for Awkward Discussion: Imagine leaving the theater and trying to make small talk after witnessing such a fraught and emotionally charged story. It could easily lead to awkward or heavy conversations about relationships, trust, and boundaries before you even know each other well.
It Paints a Negative Picture of Relationships: The film doesn't exactly inspire optimism about romantic connections. It highlights the potential for things to go very wrong, which isn't the most encouraging message for a budding relationship.
In short, while Fatal Attraction is a compelling film, its themes of betrayal, obsession, and intense psychological distress make it a risky choice for a first date. It has the potential to create an uncomfortable atmosphere and lead to conversations that are too heavy for getting to know someone new.

You'd likely be better off choosing something lighter and more conducive to positive interaction and easy conversation.

Wise4myage · Accepted Answer

Silence of the lambs, lol.

lyrem04 · Accepted Answer

Pride and Prejudice… hear me out I’m a lover girl to a tea like I love that movie so much and if I were to sit with a man to watch this on a FIRST DATE I’d prolly gaslight myself into thinking something more than it actually is bc it always make me all giddy and happy whenever I watch or read it so yea I can’t risk it I gotta think clearly on a first date right😭

7Phoenix7 · Accepted Answer

Anything super depressing lol or controversial. I watched "Get Out" yesterday with a close friend but I'd definitely avoid movies that bring in the controversial topics like racism, politics, etc.

Finchie40 · Answer

LOL that’s actually a good movie , I wouldn’t complain about it on an first date lol

Anonymous · Answer

1) Horror. Usually I can’t get a woman to go at all, and of course, horror is out. Now I’m having vision problems, so I find myself unable to watch horror films with the quick cuts, strobe type lighting.

2) raunchy comedy.

3) action is probably out.

4) A historical movie based on real events - unless you KNOW the ending, and the ending is upbeat. I saw Valkyrie (2008) with a girl I liked… not knowing what happened (besides it probably didn’t fully succeed (knowing a little about WWII))… the ending was… depressing.

Actually, movies are kind of out anyway… I’ve had issues with multiple dates/girlfriends promising that if I watch their “chick flick” first, she will happily see a movie I like (then what a coincidence, that never happens); so I’m done seeing something SHE wants first (unless I genuinely want to see it, too). Besides, you can’t really talk or get to know each other (unless you do dinner and a movie or movie and long walk), and, if you end up loving the movie they hated, or you laughed at something “you weren’t supposed to,” it might kill the possibility of a second date very quickly, before you can really get to know each other.

14gurlz2gagonit · Answer

Broke Back Mountain

I was in a another country and I couldn't read the language. I figured, from the picture, it would be a Clint Eastwood sort of flick.

Brahhhh... I wanted to feel her pussy lips bad, but I don't think that choice in a movie helped me at all. I fumbled that pussy hardcore 200% full retard style.

I think she understood that was not a movie I wanted to see... and so I got a second date. So here is some unwanted and unasked for extra dating advice... when you're on a date with a Japanese girl, don't try to explain to her why dropping nukes on them was fucking awesome.

serious · Answer

Well, I would not go on a date. However, to hypothetically answer this question then the movie I would avoid will be

"Ghosts of girlfriends past". Although a big part of the movie gives importance to only sexual pleasure and flings and this completely contradicts with my core thinking as I always give importance to higher things like non-sexual type love and romance. However, towards the end the movie does send out a strong message.

Nevertheless I would outright avoid this movie on first date.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

You mean what I'd never watch  again,  on a first date:

FriendlySteve · Answer

I would never go to a movie as a first date. That is for people who know each other well and can choose a movie that they both like.

A first date should always be a romantic evening candle lit dinner where they can dress nicely and sit opposite staring into each other's eyes.

As they become more comfortable then sit side by side in the restauraunt and hold hands under the table.

Going to movies is for people who know each other well. Holding hands is nice but not essential.

However I rather prefer to watch movies off DVDs at home but then I have a large TV and a 5 channel sound system. With the highish cost of going to cinemas it is usually cheaper to buy a Blu Ray DVD which can be viewed several times and then resold on.

Also watching at home my companion can wear a nice satin or silky feeling long nightie which I do like to touch!

Bricealan · Answer

@simslover92 "HOLIDAY."... graphic sexual scenes, with the male using a simulated penis, forcing his girlfriend to go down on him and then fucking her, and somehow showing him ejaculating on her stomach... Looked so very real, it was scary... . Movie now on Netflix... to rent only I did not know to expect that when I rented it.

Anonymous · Answer

A boy in my class who was nice but very quiet took me to a movie I don't even remember what it was but it was very sensual it got me so hot when I didn't expect to. He got everything he wanted that night and I wasn't expecting that either. I wish I could remember what movie it was so I could see it again and see if it still has the same effect.

Shiprex · Answer

I think watching a movie on a first date is a bit of a cop out. It's a knife edge of potential fail because you never get to know the other

Nikki1989 · Answer

“I Spit on Your Grave” is one of my favourite all-time movies. Ha!

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Some say it’s a great movie & others want to blow their brains out & I guarantee if you watch it you won’t have a second date.

Agape93 · Answer

Yeah thats definitely a bad one to watch on a first date lol

BCRanger10 · Answer

Before my mom met my dad, she went on a movie date. The movie the guy chose?

strateguy632 · Answer

Any movie, because 1st date needs talking to decided if 2nd date, not any film. I agree with v1 here.

SixFootSexy · Answer

Gone Girl Rosamund Pike is a quite a fox, but that movie ruined her for me.

ihateTaylorSwift · Answer

poltergeist because I'd probably start humming to the theme song at the end when the family gets rid of the tv

Xawyx-2 · Answer

I agree with your choice, that movie is definitely not for a first date.

Twalli · Answer

I generally don't see movies as a good first date idea. So any movie, unless she asks me out and then it's her decision.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Pink flamingos. Id have to ease a date into watching it.

V1ka5h · Answer

Action movie cuz I'll watch movie at that time not her😂😂

Fruitcrush34 · Answer

I would not watch, ‘He’s just not into you!’

bunny_luv · Answer

anything pornographic.

chrissykerdock · Answer

planet of the apes

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Language of Love ;-)

NoDecision · Answer

Jack the Ripper.

sage2021 · Answer

This Ten Commandments.

Communicationisking · Answer

Requiem of a dream

Iron_Man · Answer

Freddy Krueger

alice55 · Answer

movie with sex scene

elizamichale1 · Answer

Movie on first date... nah not my thing

exitseven · Answer

Scarface. too much profanity.

Babygirl_S · Answer

That is a dog who created the movie

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Any movie that I like lol

Caughtulookin · Answer

The Terrifier.

jahaims · Answer

I wouldn't watch a movie on a first date

smahala1991 · Answer

50 shades of gray

fish5505_87 · Answer

Schindler's list!

BobbyLee789 · Answer

Blue Is the Warmest Color

seeyounexttuesday · Answer

something with a lot of sex.

hello4433 · Answer

Any movie related to cheating

PeterLegg91 · Answer

About a serial killer 😆

BDRick · Answer

I spit on your grave 2  .. or any smut film

Jltakk · Answer

Probably Salo. In fact, not on any date.

Zoi2000 · Answer

Hostile or any Quentin Tarantino movie.

Panthero80 · Answer

"Deepthroat"

MemeSupreme · Answer

superbad

Paige90 · Answer

Porn

DrPepper12 · Answer

Boogie nights

stratford · Answer

Any porno.

Anastasia86 · Answer

An adult movie.

zagor · Answer

Centipede

LilLesbLover · Answer

Horror movies

Jay-_- · Answer

Sausage Party.

dragoblack · Answer

Human centipede

TheLimeNan · Answer

The break up

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I loved that movie

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