Am I horrible for feeling happy ny husband got jealous?

[Anonymous]

Start off by saying we don't normally get jealous often... but I was helping a customer find what wiring harness he needed for his dad's truck and so I had him I'm parts with me looking at diagrams and we were talking and laughing and after he left my husband says you two were sure having a great time and admitted he got jealous. Is it bad it made me happy to see the jealous side of him?

[ohsheeT]

Yes and no but after you have your fun you need to cozy up with him remind him he is married to you still and the look on his face was priceless and thank him for telling you in his own way that he loves you there is a learning experience and other lessons that are more important than the happiness for thr wrong reason you got out of it

But if you do it riight you can both laugh about it. You can also become closer and a mother lever of love from it and you can tell him thank you. For showing you in a beautiful and silly way that. He loves you and then you can both die laughing and then you can be happy because now you can tease him about it all the time think about it first make it a beautiful moment

[Summeroflove]

Do you feel bad? You’re probably not a bad person. Have you cheated? If not probably not a bad person. Probably a lapse in judgment. But make sure it STOPS at that.

I would say communicate. Is there deeper issues going on that made you feel happy? Did you feel a hint of connection with this person? I think just be honest about how you felt to your husband if you feel bad apologize. Let it stop there. Don’t keep doing things to make him jealous or go so far as to cheat.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't say you're horrible, but taking pleasure in your spouse's jealousy is not something a good person does. I think you know that, and it's why you asked this question.

[SteveSmith1985]

Yea, I think it is bad to that it made you happy, I think. It's not the kind of validation you should need from your husband. It's not a healthy source of validation or reassurance to be happy when you're able to provoke your husband's jealousy.

[Lliam]

No. It's not like you were flirting or intentionally trying to make him jealous.
But the fact that he said it made him a bit jealous sounded like healthy communication on his part. It would have been unhealthy if he had gotten angry about it.

And it makes sense that you felt gratified to know that he felt jealous. It means he cares about you.

Did you reward him for being jealous by showing him why he would never want you to stray? Did he reciprocate by showing you why you don't want anyone else?

[Billlewis]

No, you're about as perfect as a woman can be. If I were married to you, and I discovered that you were intentionally making me jealous, you'd be spoiled so rotten that all your girlfriends would be even more jealous than you made me... lol

[glennos89]

If someone is jealous, in this case your husband, then he must really love you

[Shiprex]

Would you be pleased that he made you jealous or upset?

[Anonymous]

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https://www.youtube.com/embed/jZ5vNEtimkg

[hello4433]

Yes, it is bad. You shouldn't be happy about it cause he's your HUSBAND

[PeterLegg91]

You didn't do it on purpose so no it isn't

[Anonymous]

Yeah, you kinda are.

[spartan55]

Sounds about right.