Have you ever fallen for someone that wasn’t your type?

[Summeroflove]

[PeachyPie93]

I don't really have a type but my first boyfriend I thought he was ugly fuck in the beginning lmao. Even when I lost my virginity to him, looking up at him I was just thinking eww.. hahaha I know that is horrible but whatever. After 3 years he grew on me and I could see the cuteness in him to where I thought he was attractive. Then I started thinking darker dudes were attractive and guys I thought were ugly were alright looking now, like the guitarist in Sum 41, Dave Baksh. When I was younger I thought he was hideous asf but now I see him and I think he is cute lol.

[MLGbreezy]

The amount of things wrong with this comment is just wow

[PeachyPie93]

@MLGbreezy 🤷🏻‍♀️It is what it is.. I basically wasn't attracted to Indian/Pakistani dudes at all, but now I think some are cute but I would never date one again lol.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Yeap-
Ended up in heartbreak, disappointment, and drama EVERY time 🤦‍♀️
Basically there's a reason you should set standards for the type of person you want

[Summeroflove]

I agree with that people shouldn’t be with someone they don’t feel attracted to because you’re hurting them more then yourself to be honest. You’re doing someone no favors when they could find someone who does genuinely like them.

Some people also fall too fast too hard for someone without having standards. You can’t be all emotion sometimes the hearts misleading so having feelings is fine just be logical too see the red flags.

[Summeroflove]

However, sometimes there are people who fall for someone who isn’t their type. Some people never really knew what they wanted until they found it. As for others they dated the same type of people for years and got sick of it.

[Finchie40]

No , I only date girls’ that I am attracted to , that I have great chemistry with and connection with but unfortunately that chemistry and connection can fade away

[Zack-Bann]

Yeah. None of my friends understood what I saw in her
I saw everything I wasn’t


She broke my heart (just like every story that starts like this)

[Summeroflove]

Well sometimes you see someone’s potential. What they do with that is their choice

[Zack-Bann]

I like that.
It’s a very true statement.

And to be fair I have no regrets. She gave me plenty of “firsts” including my first time truly being dumped

I’ve had many flings with many women before and after but with her I got a taste of “serious relationships”

[OlderAndWiser]

Most of my long term relationships have been with women who were not "my type." And some of those relationships lasted for many years.

[TrueConfection]

Yes. I wish I had told him.

[HawkPerception]

Yeah... every one of my exes so far 😂

[Kelley1]

I only fall for my type. However, I may fall for guys way out of my league, but I am their type only to the point that I am good enough for short-term sex.

[Summeroflove]

Why would you just sleep with them lolz

[Kelley1]

Because he was smart, very good-looking, and from a family worth tens of millions. I was in love. I wanted to marry him. However, he was far above my league, so I was just a fling who, after a couple of months, was replaced by his next beautiful young thing.

However, it wasn't a total loss and maybe not even a loss. I got an education, flew first class to Hawaii, a $3,000 necklace, designer clothes, and other expensive gifts that were just pocket change to him as he never appeared to look at prices. You might say, I was fortunate that he noticed me amongst all the other young, pretty incoming freshmen virgin girls.

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

I have a dad worth tens of millions, and a woman paid for a Hawaii vacation for both of us once.

Yet my life is still a living hell because family court shows no mercy when a woman’s wrath/and/or insanity is involved.

I could’ve moved on but I have other issues do to all the violence I saw before I was 23, and losing my Schrödinger’s kids in feminist family hell court was worsening the issues, as it would any man, except Jesus fucking Christ

[Summeroflove]

Hahahahhahahaha

[Summeroflove]

Well you accomplished a lot in your own

[exitseven]

yes, she was the opposite of all the other girls I ever dated. She was not athletic and she did not go to college. She worked as a bartender and she was an aspiring singer. Maybe that was part of the attraction. It was fun at first and I did fall for her but she was crazy and her whole life revolved around partying and d drinking.

[MLGbreezy]

I don’t think people understand the question the question isn’t have you ever fallen for someone that wasn’t your type or if things didn’t work out with someone who wasn’t your type and off they didn’t it certainly not cause they weren’t your type 🤦🏾‍♂️.


For me id say I don't know I’ve definitely been attracted to girls I thought were pretty but I weren’t my type in the sense that I didn’t think our personalities would mesh well in a relationship. But then again opposites do attract so I’ve learned to be more open minded.

[BDRick]

honestly, anymore, it's happening more and more. I think I may be changing my type, or those in my type are changing out of it.,
Maybe I dont actually have a type? whatever-the-case, yes I am expanding my scope and have stepped out of the 'comfort zone'

[ArrowheadSW]

Yes in my younger years I certainly did. It is the kind of thing where you "live and learn". Usually the kind of thing where you go too much off of physical attraction and not enough off of common interests.

[Ferngully2000]

Yes, he pursued and charmed me for ages until I finally got with him and it was over in 4 months, because he’d found someone else. He was a player.

[Summeroflove]

Players and creeps tend to be the ones who can’t take NO for a answer. Normal people looking for genuine love want someone who wants them back and has people who do

[izzyleelee]

yeaaa some guys don't look very attractive at first but once i get to know them really well and spend a lot of time with them for some reason they start to look a lot more attractive I don't know if that makes sense. you can also help a guy glow up like what they call the girlfriend effect haha

[DonaldDarko]

No, maybe I was interested in girls I didn't think were my type, but I can't claim to know myself perfectly well either.

[Dongie]

You're young yet.

[desidoll]

Yes, I was young and naive. He has great personality so I thought that would compensate. We broke up, but it has nothing to do with his look.

[ariadneR]

Yep. Currently in love with someone who wasn't my type 15 years ago, and I don't regret it one but. He is everything

[conanbdetective]

As far as not my type with regards to physical attributes yes.

I wouldn't fall for someone who I didn't connect with mentally or emotionally.

[bddddd]

My type is female and intelligent. So that is about 2 billion people. Within that select cohort, it is mainly what effort you put in that determines what you get out.

[Yannae]

Yes and there wasn't even anything wrong with her. Just a different lifestyle and you know she's not for you, but every now and then she pops up in my head.

[andreasderjuengere]

I have a good sense of balance. I don't fall.

I do have a ''type'' - yes. And I stick to it... not as a principle, but as an experience.

[red-lipstick-girl]

I fell in love with someone who was not my type and then I regretted it so much.

[bddddd]

Say more, please.

[beenherebefore]

I’ve liked someone who wasn’t my type but I was not in love with them.

[Bricealan]

@Summeroflove Been there, done that, - not good

[Anonymous]

i don't think i really have a type. having a type closes you off to some really great people out there.

[NicholasRedone]

It's probably happened 😯 Covid and my sense of time nowadays lol ⏰ clock

[britishbby]

Yep in that relationship still currently about 4 years in

[Chayce]

Yeah couple times but never fallen for them, just attracted to them

[WonderingManII]

Yes I did, I kinda fell for a teacher, and I never liked teachers.

[Anonymous]

He wasn’t my type because I didn’t have one but yes.

[Nerdvana]

I am not very attractive, most women are not my type

[Kate_Anderson]

Yes!!! I actually had particular characteristics what should be fit. But I fell in love and ended up in drama

[lilpumkinstar]

Yes, fell for his personality and then got my heart SOOO broken.

[robocop666]

100% of men will fall for boobs and butt any day

[Anonymous]

I can’t date someone im not attracted to the minute we fight that’ll be all i can see

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Nope. How is that possible?

[Summeroflove]

Some people don’t know what they want until they find it. Others get tired of dating the same type of person and ir ending the same way.

Depends. Sometimes people fall for someone that’s not their type. Sometimes not

[notadumblonde]

Yes he was older and we had little in common

[Nikki1989]

Nope!

[Ironic_Method]

Yes. It was pretty great, but not sustainable.

[Alex-Snow]

Yes and it did not go anywhere... such is life!

[HДLILБΞУ]

No, I've never been in love..

[Staximus]

Yeah and it was a big mistake

[Hellraiser1984]

Yes and I realized I should stick to my type.

[Dongie]

Heck yeah! A few times! One became a friend.

[aquamarine321]

What do you mean not your type

[LiaRaven]

I don’t have a type

[Anonymous]

Nope, never have I ever.

[abc3643]

All the time.

[Viran3]

Yes, I even fell blindly in love.

[lyrem04]

Oh yea so many times

[BonzoInBitburg]

Nope

[MikeTheBartender]

Yes... Daily.

[Mon1to]

all the time

[loveyouoak]

Yeah

[12karen]

Yes...

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes.

[Luopio27]

Hell no!

[fish5505_87]

My wife!

[hello4433]

Yes.

[Natka077]

Absolutely

[Hulk30]

yea definitely