Men, What makes you trust a woman with your feelings?

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Dіlԁοphοbe · Accepted Answer

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A woman who can handle your irresistible intromittent instrument with grace and finesse is a keeper. She understands the uncontainable urinary urge organizer and knows how to navigate the pleasurable persian paradise pointer with finesse. She's a fabulous foreskin finagler, an electrifying engorgement engine, and a spectacular scrotal serpent all rolled into one.

She should be someone who can appreciate the magnificent masturbatory monster within you, the heavenly hirsuten horn that makes you unique. She should be able to handle the remarkable rumpus rod with care, knowing that it's the enthralling epicentre of enjoyment.

A woman who can handle your captivating curvilinear crankshaft with the same enthusiasm as a bewitching bulbous beast is someone you can trust. She should be a charming clitoral cane collector, someone who can appreciate the thrilling tangled tushy tube twister and the exhilarating external extrusion explorer.

In short, trust a woman with your feelings when she can handle your invigorating inner innards inspector with the same care and respect as your own. When she can make you feel like the most magnificent masturbatory monster in the world, you know you've found someone special.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

If she is loving and caring and honest with me and I know she is by my side no matter what , I will usually open up to her more about my personal feelings , and tell her things that I really haven’t told anyone else about before , because I trust her and want her to trust me as well , without honesty and respect and trust for each other , we really have nothing with each other , Love only grows when you both can feel safe and open with each other

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

Men are taught as young boys not to cry, or tell anyone your feelings - be strong and protect, provide and procreate.
So if women don't share what the are feeling or about their past, I guess they would be a pretty boring couple.
My late boyfriend and I shared EVERYTHING to each other. He felt safe enough to do that with me because I just listened intently, didn't judge or react, didn't try to fix anything - just compassionately listened. He knew he could recruite me for advice at anytime but I know to wait and see if they ask for my advice or how I felt about somethings that weren't good experiences but he still shared them with me. I didn't react and get all theatrical on him.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

A confident man who knows himself and stays true to his character.
Many of my guy friends have no problem sharing their true feelings, because they learned to trust themselves and know they are good enough as they are, regardless of how their feelings are perceived by others.

ohsheeT · Answer

You said it right there trust your feelings. If a guy know who he truly is he's not worried about sharing anything with a person he love or even likes. Because he's been judge many times before. Hey knows who he is. And wants the person he sharing with to know and to understand the real him he has nothing To be embarrassed by or ashamed of. He's strong enough no matter what happens or what the person thinks of him he knows in life that he is really the only person that can make or break him so he's not afraid to show his true self

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I trust a woman who is always kind to strangers, such as wait staff at restaurants.

AviatorTom · Answer

I always trust... until that trust is broken.

Purpleronnie · Answer

To be completely honest I have never trusted any woman with my personal feelings , and likely never would. Being completely transparent I pay little notice to “feelings” generally speaking and only ever communicated those that have directly affected our relationship be it freindship or something more and only after taking the time necessary to understand if it’s a constant , rational , quantifiable feeling based on actual fact.

I am very much a measured and stoic person and generally don’t react based on emotion or feelings. So not mercurial or highly strung in any way in those respects so tend to treat my outward feelings and emotions the same way.

Shiprex · Answer

Feeling safe but women aren't very good at doing that and often lose respect for men when they DO test the boundaries of vulnerability with them. Too often these steps into vulnerability have been met with scorn or dismissed and even the old "man up", or get therapy as I'm a your therapist while you've ALWAYS stood back and listened and consoled them when they "vent" or emote for validation.

So a lot of probing to find out just how stable they are before showing a need for consolation and dealing with things. It's better sometimes with a dog tbh.

14gurlz2gagonit · Answer

I wouldn't anymore... but I would say we get prodded to. Then we find out the hard way anything we say can and will be used against us.

Shouldn't be that hard to understand because chicks do the same shit to other chicks. They tell you to open up about a thing and when you do... raked over the coals.

At this point though... I'm like Samson in the Bible and I know exactly why the hawt chick is asking about my source of my power. She just wants to bring me down to her level. I don't trust chicks that needlessly dig for my inner shit.

capriVib · Answer

I don’t truly open up emotionally to any woman except my mother. This is because when a man shares his feelings and struggles with the woman he’s with, he ends up seeming like an ordinary man in her eyes. If there’s an issue, I’ll talk about it—but only without getting too emotional.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Similar to @aviatortom ... I give a ''trust advance'' first. But I stay alert... hoping for the best, and being prepared for the worst. On the longer run, I'll then see where it goes.  My feelings are my own property in some way; I will invest them; and I will protect them.

OneViewpoint · Answer

LOL, absolutely nothing. She will never know anything that is going on with me which isn't the happy, fun stuff. The real stuff, I'll take to my grave. It's the way women prefer men. Regardless of how much they claim they want men who are "emotionally available". You share, they run.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

There is no chance if you say something very private to a women and it will be kept a secret.

and in this matter most often than not it may or will used against you in an unfavorable situation.

Girls will slaughter you with words and infront of a group of people.

I have witnessed it happen to a friend with my own eyes.

In every spicies of organisms females are the cunning and cruelest it's design by nature.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I tend to run my emotions through a filter of logic, so if she has proven herself trustworthy I will perhaps do so.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Men shouldn't ever trust anyone with tjier feelings, it will only be used against you.
Take it from a guy who's lived 40 years fellas. No one care about your feelings until they can be used against you in family court. Just bury them deep down and forget about them.

Jeff51 · Answer

It takes time for me to open up. When I'm ok I tell it all.

Miristheiss · Answer

Probably best not to ever. To a degree. Some of your feelings but most of your deepest weaknesses and doubts and pain you should share with trusted male friends and not your woman.

soe11 · Answer

Every thing must be disclosed. Nothing to be hide between us.

exitseven · Answer

I try to figure out whether or not they will laugh at me.

strateguy632 · Answer

Not exactly trust. Most didn't nag me about feelings but one did... i learnt not to expose emotions. 😉

Lottydotty · Answer

Boobs like honestly that will work everytime. Pop one out or just nip n slip and we're married, you're already pregantan with 15 of our kids and I've already built our house on that hill we first thrusted on.

WonderingManII · Answer

I'm just honest with everyone, and hope for the best. But that don't mean I fully trust her. If she hurts me, and never apologizes, I'm done with her.

glennos89 · Answer

If she is a genuinely showing me that she cares and listening to what I'm saying

melnc · Answer

In my opinion, that is a serious mistake, and I strongly advise against it.

Lliam · Answer

Hearing her being honest about hers. Feeling safe to share without being judged.

Sparklight · Answer

This is a good question. Waiting on responses.

adventurous-1 · Answer

Time, how they treat you, are they sincere, honest, and communicate with you. How I feel around them and what I hear from others about them.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Good personal chemistry and good experiences with her over time.

RavVid · Answer

It is well established that women lose respect if you do share.

Grond21 · Answer

This is kind of an odd question. The same way we find out we can trust anyone with our feelings

Chayce · Answer

Nothing. Made the mistake of doing that once and never doing it again.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Just showing that her care for them and me are genuine.. Just as simple and basic as that..

ProbablyClueless · Answer

If I’ve seen her to be a respect and discerning person with a healthy sense of boundaries.

SotiCoto · Answer

Alcohol. Lots of alcohol.  Even then it isn't trust so much as breakdown of self-control.

Renegade_Sailor · Answer

I don't trust with my feelings, I control my feelings because I'm not an emo bitch.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know tbh. I opened up to an ex who ended up using it against me and making me feel like a child. I don't know if I'll ever trust a woman again at that level.

Jersey2 · Answer

Time and closeness along with instances where I feel she is supporting me when with others.

Yannae · Answer

Time. Time which allows me to get a grasp of who she is.

ILoveRocks · Answer

If they had a similar/as traumatic background. Personally when it comes to opening up about trauma or insecurities I can't do it unless its with someone I know can relate.

Anonymous · Answer

At this point I'm not sure they can after everything they've done to me.

Anonymous · Answer

Meh, all of my loves were unrequited, I don't really think that I can trust most women with my feelings.

MangakaJ96 · Answer

If a female is loyal and allows me to be myself around her.

Raaj4you · Answer

I hate women who flake. I want what I want easily!

Kinkyhubby · Answer

Time, honesty, feeling she won't tell anyone

msc545 · Answer

nothing anymore.

Staximus · Answer

Because I was stupid haha

Godihateyou · Answer

Nothing. Never. Are you re treded

Chthou95 · Answer

I don't share feelings. Stoicism is based

Anonymous · Answer

not a dang thing anymore

HusamRocks · Answer

I don't 👍🏻

DonaldDarko · Answer

Nothing now.

Phoenix98 · Answer

She earns it.

grega239 · Answer

🤣🤣🤣🤣

DCVsMarvel2 · Answer

Stupidity

MasterKS · Answer

6th sense.

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