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Friends with benefits where is the silver lining? Or any lining?

So I recently got this friends with benefits. I moved to a new town. He said he didn’t want anything. He wants his peace. I’m on the same page. Peace and stacking up. But I’m getting mixed signals. We text here and there send eachother stupid memes we’ll talk shii to eachother. It’s a good balance. I’ll confirm with him that I don’t want anything I just want peace and to stack up. He’ll make comments like damn are you in my head etc. but lately after we get done he’ll stay talk about his family show me pictures of his family and when he was a kid he’ll talk to me about his goals, he’ll stay and just talk. He’ll make jokes about me staying in town and not leaving in December or about me getting knocked up. I don’t pay it much attention until last night when he was being a punk and I told him I hope his next girl gets knocked up and gives him a daughter he said why would you wish that on yourself. Made me freeze. I laughed it off and we just continued to talk shii that night. But he hasn’t texted me like he normally would or reached out. I won’t reach out. If he texts he texts. If he dosent he dosent. Am I being too harsh? I thought friends with benefits just hooked up and then left not stayed and joked? Am I overthinking? I don’t know what’s he is thinking? Maybe I should just pick up extra shifts at work and be ‘unavailable’ or is that mean? I mean I see him sundays at church and his mom Tuesdays on bible study. Me and his mom are cool with eachother. He’s older then me by 5 years and he has no kids.

Friends with benefits where is the silver lining? Or any lining?
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