My semi LDR boyfriend of 3 months sent me $2000 so I could take an unpaid month off of work and stay with him in Texas where he traveled for work?

[jillybeanns]

We’ve been pretty serious since the day we met, we’ve talked About marriage and the whole nine. We’re on the same page about our future, but I’m wondering (of course without having to ask him directly), is his gesture too much too soon or have you guys made gestures like this before, for the woman who was the one in your eyes? Thank you for taking the time to respond, if you choose to.

Updates

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Forgot to add: in the same window of time he had also bought me a $400 promise ring from Zales. Is this too much too soon or green flags?

[Alex-Snow]

That is fairly fast if you have only been in an ltr for 3 months. Have you been having sex with him? Maybe that is what he wants more than just visiting?

[jillybeanns]

I think I might want that more than him 😂

[Alex-Snow]

Well you go for it girl and enjoy the great orgasms!

[dudeinohio]

You guys really need to live in the same area and properly date to see if you are truly compatible.

[jillybeanns]

It’s a one hour commute

[EmmaMary]

Seems all that's left is to start planning your wedding! lol

[EmmaMary]

Thank you so very much indeed for the MHO.

[jahaims]

It's okay to communicate that you aren't comfortable with him spending so much on you

[jillybeanns]

I’m not uncomfortable. I’m just curious on what other guys thinks of this scenario.