All of you single ladies why are you single?

[Bklynbadboy12]

[Crimsyjo]

Cos men around me seem only focused on sex and not relationships even tho in a relationship with me they would get more sex than they could handle 😄. And men around my age - I presume - want a younger woman than me. Many men have the opinion that older ladies don't like sex, are not sexy and are past it. If only they knew. Cos funny how guys in their 20's get to enjoy all us older ladies energy, experience and desire for sex?

I just can't have a committed relationship with a guy si much younger than me. So I am here, still single. But at least not celibrate.

[Bklynbadboy12]

But at least I'm not that makes a lot of sense but have you ever just thought there intimidated by you

[Crimsyjo]

Do you think so? But men my age don't even get to thr point of getting to know me to be intimidated. Like I rarely get older guys I like match with me. And the few I do GP straight into thinking sex. Or other weird stuff. Like I've said before... of the few "possible" guys I match with one was a catfish, one was sub and into pegging, one confessed to being a pan cross dresser with a big dildo collection, another phoned me drunk and talking about God, confessing sins and bitching about his ex and all women whilst simultaneously slurring did I want sex and I look like a right kinky one.
And believe me I'm tame on my dating profile. I'm not showing major cleavage or posed sexy or anything so do I just give off sex/kink vibes? I don't know lol. I've shown my female friends my profile and they say it looks ok. So I presume it MUST be men these days in age group. Is it true men mainly look for wife and kids material when younger and then when older and divorced see no point in relationships? For me I think this is the BEST time!! If we have had our kids in previous relationships and now can be focused on each other and being happy and doing fun things!! I'm laid next to my 20 Yr old FB right now (he's asleep) and it's best feeling just having company, cuddles, companionship. If a younger guy can enjoy that why doesn't an older guy want the benefits of more than just sex?

[Bklynbadboy12]

They don't have to know you to be intimidated by you they can look at you and be intimidated by you

[Crimsyjo]

I'm really not that confident. I am in sex when I plan to meet for sex but that's part mask (acting confident) and experience or habit haha. As a receptionist too I know how to be chatty. But other than that I think I come across as a nice person and pretty ordinary. And again how are younger guys able to approach me? I know they do feel a bit intimidated but they do it anyways. I thought older guys would have way more experience?
I do know older guys do seem initimdated when I say I go out alone? That I go club by myself. Or cinema or whatever. Does that scare men? Haha

[Bklynbadboy12]

It doesn't matter if you're really confident all that matters living the perception that you're confident is out there

[ariadneR]

Men up here aren't shit.

And I have high standards and guys can't seem to live up to them

[Bklynbadboy12]

You're doing the right thing don't settle never settle for less than your worth

[Genie23]

Because I'm fed up after bad experiences and now I have trust issues, so I'm scared to let anyone in my life

[Bklynbadboy12]

You say it like having trust issues is a bad thing. Your treat should earned never given. If they want you trust make them earn it

[Genie23]

I thought it was until you said it that way. You always know the right thing to say. Always makes me feel better. So, thank you

[SueShe]

I am single and celibate by choice and conviction. Life has proved that my decision was the right one.

I keep saying it over and over again but for all those that have not yet heard my arguments, here they come.

I do what I want whenever I want
I clean my own mess only
I have the freedom to do as I want without having to take others into consideration
I don't have the pressure to deliver or perform the way others want
I only have to worry about my own stupidity and nonsense
I can cry watching a romantic movie without getting those looks from a tough guy
I go to bed whenever I want and above all, alone
I don't go on others' nerves when I am moody
I eat what I like and only cook for one person and not an army
I save money by not having to go out or to a restaurant
I decorate my place to my liking
I have no mistrust issues
I could tell another million and one other arguments

And to all those that argue that the most important is missing, I say no, I do not place importance on what you are thinking of and to me it is not a loss not to have it.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I mean that's a very compelling argument but I don't think anybody wants to be alone forever

[katiesmuff]

Most of them because that is the way they want to be!

[Bklynbadboy12]

Unfortunately that's true we live in a hookup culture so now it's like nobody wants a relationship cuz they can get it anytime they want without having to commit