The stats are in. Women are 11 to 15 times more likely to match with someone compared to men on Tinder. What are your thoughts on this?

[HawkPerception]

The stats are given 22:19 for the majority of you who won't watch the video

[Crimsyjo]

Yes it's true completely. One of my guys is 20 and said he hardly gets matches! So imagine if your an older guy! I've spoken to lots of men who say they swipe lots but rarely get matches.

But then I think women are the key to matches. Because if we did what men do men would get a lot more matches but they would all be dead ends. Because men do not read bio and choose carefully who they swipe on. They swipe 5000 times like casting a big fishing net out. They want to see what they catch. But what comes in might be an old boot, several tiddlers and hopefully one nice big fish. Hopefully not a catfish tho lol.

Then they go through the haul and decide if it's worth keeping or discarding.

Women however... we know if we cast a big net we gonna get a big haul. Much bigger than the men's. And who has time to go through all the tiddlers, catfish and old boots? So we hunt not fish. We don't go shooting everything we see. We decide what we want (the deer or the bear etc) and we select based on what looks like it matches what we want. That way yes men get less matches but when you DO get a match you can be sure that the woman has seen potential and balls in your court now to make her want to keep you.

[HawkPerception]

Funny thing is when I'm on dating apps, I'm swiping left on probably 90% of girls, I always read the bios of the ones I'm physically attracted to, and I usually try to comment off of something on their profile.

I've probably gotten 5 dates from dating apps over 11 years. They suck for men.

[Crimsyjo]

Haha well it doesn't surprise me you are more careful in your selection. You are a hunter not a fisherman lol. And yeah it probably cuts down your chances of matching with more but your intelligent guy so you know it's better to match only if you like. But I know a lot of guys see it aa an ego boost (well they are hopeful but usually backfires). They want to feel desired by getting more matches even if those matches are unsuitable. I guess depends how desperate the guy is? a lot of guys seem like they would sleep with anything anyways.

When I'm looking for casual sex I get a lot of matches. But looking for relationship I've been on only 2 official dates in 1.5 years of swiping.

[HawkPerception]

I appreciate the compliment!
2 dates is a LOT for less than 2 years from a guy's standards haha.

By the way, I wanted to share some stats.
- Only a small minority of men (about 5–8%) are responsible for the majority of casual sexual encounters
- Most men have a moderate number of lifetime partners (median of 5–6), not dozens or hundreds
- While many men may express willingness for casual sex in hypothetical scenarios, real-world behavior is much more restrained due to social and practical factors

[Vegasrunner]

@Crimsyjo If a man is using a dating app to look for one women he's a loser. Women are just another game, cast a wide net and bang as many as you can.

[HawkPerception]

@Vegasrunner Wow man

[Vegasrunner]

@HawkPerception Thanks, reading your post at least you have a grasp of how dating works. Have you considered the fact that perhaps you're doing something wrong by wasting time and commenting based on their profile?

[Crimsyjo]

"While many men may express willingness for casual sex in hypothetical scenarios, real-world behavior is much more restrained due to social and practical factors"

I'm interested to know more. Here or dm? How come you say only small number 5-8% responsible for casual sex?

[Vegasrunner]

@Crimsyjo Because most women share the top % of men.

[Crimsyjo]

@Vegasrunner that presumes women are attracted to the sane men but that's factually not true.

[Vegasrunner]

@Crimsyjo Actually not only is it factualy true, it's been validated throughout time based on matting practices. Women don't like to hear this because it's shatters their belief that they are unique, however it's a well recognized fact, accepted by every expert in this industry.

[Crimsyjo]

@Vegasrunner well I know for fact that other women friends of mine don't fancy the guys I sleep with lol. Because I go for younger than they would. I know there is a higher chance of certain males getting lucky over others. But I question the "top ten percent" rule. I don't think it's as refined as that. And there would be different tiers. For instance I'm not "top 10%" woman so I probably can't even get a top 10% guy. So I'll be fishing in a lower pool..

[SueShe]

Sorry but my security settings on my browser does not allow me to view this video. This site is known to contain pornographic and sexual visuals and thus, it is blocked.

However, I don't trust data that is so easily manipulated by just about anyone. Those hookup sites (not dating sites) are known to harbor a lot of bots and the available data is just not reliable because the owners of those hookup sites have all interest in falsifying data in order to get more desperate people to try to use them for attempting to hookup.

Those people that are on those sites are all the ones that are not really looking for a serious and long lasting relationship but just to fornicate.

[HawkPerception]

I understand, but the guy was an honest dude (you could tell). And he sourced his facts and did the calculations.

https://youtu.be/3pvkgUc9Zbc?si=Nf8f6Q9nYbeBleaF

[SueShe]

If I take the picture that accompanies your question, I see that the man has 5,000+ likes and the woman not even 1,000. That keeps me wondering though.

[HawkPerception]

It's meant to portray the amount of swiping done. He goes into all of the data in the video

[SueShe]

OK thanks but what is swiping? Not asking for someone else. Genuinely no idea what that is all about.

[HawkPerception]

I understand you haven't been on dating apps, but you haven't even heard of swiping? Swiping left and right is usually how you decide whether you like someone's profile. Swiping right is usually a like and swiping left is usually a pass.

[SueShe]

I have heard of swiping but never took the time to check it up or ask. I know now. Thanks

[Zack-Bann]

Been that way for ages
It is what it is


One match is worth more than 0
Which is what we get by not trying anything


That’s the only thing that should matter to you
Never mind what other people are getting
Focus on filling your own plate

[Joshydavid25]

Common knowledge at this point.. The amount of times I've seen girls talk about getting too many messages is immeasurable..

[HawkPerception]

Yeah but hearing 11 to 15 times more likely is nuts. I used to just throw out 10 times more likely to exaggerate. But now I learn it's more than that lol

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, I can see that.. But the average guy is barely getting a couple of matches a month.. Whereas women instantly get matches.. And easily can get a hundred matches in a week.. The ratio of guys to girls is crazy on dating apps.. And many guys swipe on everything they find even a little attractive in hopes of maybe getting some booty, and there you have it the results... But I agree... 11 to 15 times is crazy work.. These apps are menaces.

[Joshydavid25]

Thanks for MHO!

[Crimsyjo]

Haha yep it is true. Tho we don't get "matches" as such (that implies we like the guys back). We get hundreds of guys interested. But only a small number we actually interested I'm back or are suitable or not some creep or weirdo. It's actually still really hard to find a normal guy on the apps despite the numbers!

[Joshydavid25]

@Crimsyjo Oh, yeah I know about that as well.. How most of the matches aren't quality, just quantity.. So dating apps suck for busy and girls just in different ways..

[Crimsyjo]

Yes exactly!!! The apps suck. But also are the only way to possibly find someone if your immediate circle of work and friends has nobody.
I'm surprised to hear men say how many crazy weird women are on the apps too!

[Joshydavid25]

@Crimsyjo Yeah, it seems that way unfortunately, although I've never felt like the apps are the only or even main way.. I het. netter reception from women in real life.. And yeah, me too sometimes.. But not really.. Lol

[Chazmatazz269]

The grass is green. The sky is blue. Water is wet.
I can do it too!
Ell oh ell!

[Kelley1]

Men date down for sex, often way down. Therefore, almost any woman will do. However, women only date up for sex. Therefore, only exceptionally attractive men are acceptable.

[HawkPerception]

I agree for the most part. It's all these pathetic dudes with 0 standards swiping right on everything that are inflating those numbers that much

[PeachyPie93]

It just shows how desperate men are compared to women. No one worthwhile is usually on an app.. there are a few decent people but the majority are trash looking for hookups or money lol. No one should use them as their main way to get a partner.

[slatyb]

What do you mean by "match?" Do you mean "receive interest"? Of course this is true. Men are much less selective because there is little risk to men from strange women. Women must be more selective because some men are dangerous to women.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Success rates for dating/hookup apps per gender would be roughly the same because, for the most part, any successful match would contain a man, and a woman.

The only way women could be 11 to 15 times more likely to match than men, is if those extra women were, well, matching with other women.

Only 5% of women are sexually attracted to other women, this does not create an 11 to 15 fold difference.

Likes aren't matches by the way, coupling is a match.

[Staximus]

Let's say you made two Tinder profiles. One with a picture of a beautiful woman and one with a picture of a very handsome guy. Both with good education, career, cool hobbies, etc. I guarantee you the beautiful woman profile gets 10 to 20 times the messages.

[queenofcardio]

Agree. I used to get a decent amount of matches

[Apple1996]

My thoughts are that there are way more men on dating sites compared to women so yeah women are naturally gonna get more attention on them. Also dating apps are really for hookups. The majority of people dont take them seriously for dating

[wynning]

That would check out. There's a lot more men than women on many if not most dating apps. There's probably also swiping patterns that I'm not all that aware of like selectivity that contribute quite a bit.

[SolitarySolace]

Dating apps create incels. Dating apps are made for women because of women.

[LazerBean]

That's no surprise, men are much more promiscuous than women and have less to lose by being easy than women do.

[WhitneySnow]

There are a lot more men than women on Tinder

[HawkPerception]

That is stated in the video, but the women swipe left way more than men do to the point it doesn't match the ratio of sexes

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe women who go on Tinder have higher standards than the men on there do

[HawkPerception]

Or maybe they have their egos inflated to the extent that they only deserve Henry Cavill type men. It's a fact that women get many times more attention than men. Women cannot even fathom how lonely it is to live as a man, nor do they seem to care.

[Cormac995]

You're just figuring this out now? We've known this since the apps came out.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i dont give a fuck. i dont date, but that just shows men r desperate as fuck

[HawkPerception]

One day you'll grow up, though I doubt it'll be anytime soon

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah no. not everyone wants what u want.

[Miristheiss]

Yeah.

Water is wet. The sky is blue.

[RedInnocent69]

That guys aren’t picky, especially when there’s an opportunity for sex

[sage2021]

Match, yes, but for how long?

[WonderingManII]

I think that is true.

[Godihateyou]

Men dont use tinder. It's just lesbians and bots