95% of Women on Dating Apps Aiming for the Top 1% of Men. Tinder Statistic Thoughts. Are you surprised?

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Found this pretty fascinating but honestly not too surprising.

95% of Women on Dating Apps Aiming for the Top 1% of Men. Tinder Statistic Thoughts. Are you surprised?

So statistics for tinder swipe data was revealed to show that 95% of Women are only swiping for the top 5% of Men.

In comparison. Men's statistics is pretty mid range. Only 47% of men did not swipe for women.

95% of women are therefore aiming for the top 1% of men.

Kinda offers an interesting insight. Obviously the statistics are a bit skewed and can't work. The 1% of Men will now than likely happily do a one night stand with those women but aren't interested in marrying them.

Curious what your thoughts are on these stats

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yeah I’m not surprised, I also did this. I calculated it for myself once that I swiped left on about 90-98% depending on the batch of profiles shown at the moment. Most men on there are just not it. It was not a case of me only swiping on the hottest guys on there though, typically I avoided those because of my prejudice and because of them often not being my type. I swiped right on guys I found attractive of course but who were more like ”cute regular guys” and who ALSO had a good profile. Most men on there have crap pictures or profiles. I swiped no on those I didn’t find attractive but also those without pictures where you could see them and what they looked like, thise without bio, pictures with other women, shirtless pictures, had bitter quotes as pictures or in their bio, horrible creepy facial expressions, claims of wanting sex or not knowing what they’re looking for/”open to anything”, listed partying or drinking alcohol as tvings they like to do, pictures where they were drinking alcohol, pictures where they were smoking, those who stated they have kids and so on. With all of these stuff you eliminate almost all men on there. I really don’t think it’s too much to ask to want a partner you A) are attracted to, B) have the same values and goals as and C) have lifestyles that match and D) treat you right. If I can’t have that then yeah well I’d rather be single for the rest of my life because I’m not that desperate. A good partner would be a bonus, it’s not a requirement or need in any sort of way. I’m perfectly fine and happy being single as well. He needs to be special to me for me to want to get into a serious relationship and that’s all I was looking for - zero interest in anything casual or short term. And no, it’s not just for hookups anymore, lots of people use it to find relationships of even friends.

LaBokaChula · Accepted Answer

I am really not surprised by this I watched so many different YouTube videos on this and most of the time it just goes to our heads. Dating out of our league is something huge for a majority of people. Most of us have this sense of entitlement and eventually life really does humble us. LOL

Guanfei · Accepted Answer

Medias keep telling women they're the prize, that they're all beautiful and deserve the best. Because of it, they now have an overinflated ego and consider only the top men as interesting, and they don't see the rest of us as even human.

While men are told they're nothing, and they can't have any standards, they're just options. Of course they won't be as picky, they're told that they only deserve what they can get.

Lionman95 · Accepted Answer

I expected this swiping results because guys and women decide if they really want to date a person at different points in dating. As a guy I like all the women I find attractive but that doesn´t mean that I would want to date them since I don´t know their character.
Women on the other hand make the decision way earlier, they only enter a conversation with a person they consider a partner for a relationship.

Summeroflove · Answer

You’re talking about dating apps good luck finding anyone serious on a dating app. Most women aren’t this way just the narcissists are the one who yell the loudest the same goes for men. They are the ones who are yelling the loudest and trying to prove everyone something.

If these women could obtain the type of men they want they wouldn’t be on these dating apps. They don’t want the men they don’t want feeling entitled to them but they at the same time feel entitled to the type of men they’re wanting. If they were happy women I’m happy relationships they wouldn’t hate on other men or women for that matter.

Find quality of attention over quantity because believe you me that there are people (men and women) who can attract a lot of attention from the opposite sex and you have to sift the shit from the gold.

Trust me those women on dating apps bitching are miserable cows who will probably never find the kind of man they want. Because they wouldn’t be there if that’s the case and most men on there aren’t serious either.

LazerBean · Answer

It's not surprising for several reasons.

- men generally have much lower standards and mainly just want to get their dick wet while women tend to want someone who at least has a little bit of relationship potential

- a very high percent of people on dating apps are there because they can't find someone in real life. Which means a higher percentage women who are on there because they're undesirable compared to their laughably high standards, and Men who are generally rejects and hoping that they can find someone online because nobody in real life will let them stick their dick in them

- most sensible and valuable people are able to easily find someone in real life, thus a very low percent of such people will be on a dating app.

FreyaRed · Answer

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FunnyGiy · Answer

I don’t know. I don’t really use online dating. I can tell you. If you’re the top 1 percent of guys. It’s worse then it is for girls…. Lol.

But. At least girls know what they want. I think some guys just like to send as many requests as they can just to net in as many girls as possible.

But wouldn’t actually date a number of them and choose form their options

mandyfire98 · Answer

Get off of tinder. Stop using it. Go out and meet people. If you're going on dating apps looking for women still, then you deserve to deal with women who are super picky. Or women only trying to sell you their onlyfans. It's a scam. Live real life.

Avicenna · Answer

Online dating is not representative of dating in general, and I'd caution you from interpreting too much from this data.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Yep that's how it is. I do much better when I'm able to be charming in person than I do on OLD.

I'm kind of tired of hookups anyways though, so no big deal.

I'd like to land a second woman, and then live that good throuple life.

Rangers · Answer

Don't waste your time on dating apps, go to your local police station and do a ride along with a female officer and flirt with her, they'll either love you or let you down softly but your chances will be way better

Anonymous · Answer

Parents generally invest a lot of money into girls to give them a luxury lifestyle than guys. Young girls get the princess treatment whereas guys are encouraged to get to work, and study. Most women don't want to lose their lifestyle status and use their looks to get men who can do the same as their parents did in their old age. It's a social conditioning and most people are too dumb to notice and get out of the system.

A_Bell · Answer

It's guys' fault. Don't be simps. You really act desperate when you basically thank us for treating you like crap.

dustybiker · Answer

Stats won’t get you a solid foundation for a long and happy relationship. Work on your people skills.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I think it's because women are looking for a serious relationship and evolution has made us picky. Men on dating websites are usually looking for something short term. Most men don't even want to get married these days.

AviatorTom · Answer

Most women are very picky and want the best. Most men are less selective, willing to have less than the best so long as it's good.

Faithfully · Answer

Your conclusion doesn't follow from the chart. Who said that they're all swiping on the same 1% of men?

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Not surprised. Dating apps are the worst thing to ever happen to dating. You are far more likely to become jaded or bitter than to find someone.

Anonymous · Answer

From a simple math perspective the very small number of men who do get liked, are liked by soo many women that they really are only looking to pump and dump.

AndrésC64 · Answer

Not at all surprised. And there will still be many women bitching about how they can't get a date and why don't men approach them.

Chthou95 · Answer

This isn't a shock at all. And it really isn't that much better in real life. Dating standards are still the same regardless if online or not. Men have to build a lot of value. That figure shouldn't shock anyone one though

Anonymous · Answer

Those top guys have all the STDs, and that's why 95% of women on Tinder report burning when they pee.

Anonymous · Answer

If they end up single for so long or cheated on by those top 10% it's not gonna be my problem. Some lady will have a realistic perspective on dating and she's gonna get a quality boyfriend.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I aim for selecting from the top 1% of women, or at least what I view as the top anyway.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Pussy rules :D I'm good with the remaining 5% - heh heh

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know, I either reject a guy who's too hot, because I don't want him to see me, or a guy who's fat, because I'm not fat, when I'm on dating sites. I wouldn't say I personally aim for the "top 1 percent".

Anonymous · Answer

Anyone who thinks this is remotely accurate needs a reality check.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

It's their right to desire what they desire and I seriously don't care.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Works for me. I get Hella matches on tinder these days.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

People that use dating sites are insecure losers.

Anonymous · Answer

No, the whole concept that women care less about looks than men do has forever been debunked. Fat women on tinder still pull more matches than above average looking men.

Anonymous · Answer

Women are generally shallow, petty, and delusional.

fonduegirl · Answer

The 1% are probably men with edited photos

AsaKyo · Answer

Don't care about dating apps

TroyDT2 · Answer

Online dating is a Dumpster Fire

CloudMassacre · Answer

Tinder is a hookup app, so it’s not surprising

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