What is your match rate like on Tinder? Are women just really picky on dating sites?

[jabariw18]

I swear. I'm not a bad looking dude at all. I get told that I'm handsome and I get compliments for my voice all the time. I get told I'm smart, honest, kind, funny, artistic, passionate, I could go on. No girl has ever had anything bad to say about me in regards to my looks. However I'm forever friend zoned and on dating sites I get 0 matches and 0 replies. Even if I swipe everyone (50+ girls) right indiscriminately I only get maybe 1-2 matches every 3 days and it's always some morbidly obese girl who is obviously just scraping the bottom of the barrel. To a lesser extent I'll match with gays or transgenders, or cam girls who act like their interested and then randomly reveal that they are actually a cam model and want me to look at their site. The super rare occasions where I actually match up with someone decent, they either don't reply or they stop after 1-2 messages. The only things I can think of are:1: I've been lied to about my looks my entire life.
2: Most girls aren't into black guys.
3: Girls on those sites are incredibly picky and expect a solid 10/10 man for a right swipe.

I swipe everyone right and get 0-2 matches a day

I swipe everyone right and get 2-10 matches a day

I swipe everyone right and get 10+ matches a day

I am selective about who I swipe and get and get 0-2 matches a day

I am selective about who I swipe and get 2-10 matches a day

I am selective about who I swipe and get 10+ matches a day

Updates

+1 y

This poll is looking rather sad/ Can we get some more votes?

[cavmanier]

I hear this is just how online dating goes my man, unless you are Denzel Washington lol (maybe I dated myself). You people make me want to try it to see if it's really the shit fest I hear. I bet it's pretty bad. I always did the meeting in person thing. Just talk to girls anywhere. There's a few single girls out there.

[NerdInDenial]

Based on my ethnicity alone, I don't use Tinder. You have to be a model to get a lot of matches.

https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a

[jabariw18]

Yeah I know black guys have it bad but Asian men have it even worse. I'm sorry friend. Fuck stereotypes.

[mistixs]

Check out these links http://jonmillward.com/blog/attraction-dating/cupid-on-trial-a-4-month-online-dating-experiment/
https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a

[jabariw18]

Yeah one of the other repliers sent me that. It's nuts. I was hoping women weren't just picky but unfortunately that seems to be the case. An average guy only gets 1/115 girls. That's literally insane. I think I'm above average but me being black probably knocks me from like a 7.5 to like a 3.5

[PartRaptor]

guys need to get off all dating apps. For too long men have worshipped women and chased women and acted desperate. Men are so desperate and pathetic nowadays. Guys need to ignore women for like a year maybe then women might actually like men again. Men can’t go an hour without catcalling or hitting on a random girls. Make a women actually desire a man for once

I’m not desperate enough to go on tinder.

[Creepazoid]

Lol dating apps is trash for most guys. I'm with you man. I got the same experience.

[Slim57]

I swipe right and get 2 matches per month that don't even say anything when I message them, yes women are very picky on dating sites, because honestly they can be, not a place for dudes who don't know how to stand out

[Jackpot777Returns]

Well I ain't really in the mood to get an STD right now so I have not used Tinder even once lol

[jabariw18]

Well even if I was irresponsible enough to get an STD I couldn't because nobody ever matches me.

[Jackpot777Returns]

Man you got to be kidding you are 28 there are tons of bitches out there who would.

[jabariw18]

I wish you were right.

[CT_CD]

Yes women are very selective on dating sites

[Anonymous]

women are just picky universally