If most men are open to commitment but women chase the ones who aren't, what’s really hurting modern dating?

[Anonymous]

It’s often said that “men don’t want relationships,” but is that really true?

A lot of decent, loyal guys are being overlooked while the same small group of guys get all the attention and avoid commitment.

So is the problem really men… or the choices women are making? Modern dating feels more frustrating than ever.
Some say men avoid commitment.
Others say women overlook genuine guys.
So what’s really going wrong?

Men – not good enough.

Women – picking the wrong guys.

Both – but women control who they date.

Dating is just messed up now.

[Anonymous]

Did your first thousand whinefests on GaG change anything? No? You think the next thousand will? You exhausted this years ago You're eternally single because of YOU and YOU only.

[Asker]

Interesting how you didn’t refute a single point and just attacked me personally. That’s what people do when they don’t have a real argument. If I were actually the problem, you wouldn’t feel so triggered by the truth.

[Amy_2000]

Yeah true

[Nikki1989]

“If most men are open to commitment”

Most? On what planet do you live on.

[Asker]

The planet where 80% of men are ignored by women chasing the same 20% of guys who won’t commit — and then complain men don’t want relationships. That planet.

[HelpfulGirlll]

Some women just like the challenge.