
Do you make the effort to plan unique romantic dates with your spouse or significant other or do you just do the same old things?


Interesting this one.
Recently I met a lovely woman, albeit at my dentist! No she wasn’t my dentist.
A fantastic sense of humour, beautiful, in my eyes at least, and incredibly tolerant.
I had a little argument on the phone, nothing to write home about, It was all work-related, someone at the dentist, got on my wick. When we had finished the conversation roughly half an hour later, I put my head in my hands and thought, Oh you blasted fool, I must point out that at this point I had no inclination of approaching her to ask her out.
Anyway, I had an appointment in three days time and planned to buy her a little gift as an apology.
So I arrived at the dentist and I saw her and I apologised and told her I had a gift for her and I gave her the gift. As I was explaining about this particular gift, I suddenly looked around at her eyes and she had completely locked eyes with me with a lovely smile on her face and her eyes were sparkling. Now this had never happened to me in my life, this is a woman 25 years younger than myself, she absolutely melted me.
From that moment I was going to give it a couple of days and then ask her out. Unfortunately, for me, I told my hygienist about what had happened and subsequently got a telephone call from the practice manager he told me to back off!
Blast!
I plan date nights with my wife weekly. Most of our dates are not unique, but we sometimes go to the beach, go to an adjoining town for dinner, go out sailing and then dinner, go to concerts, or go to family events. About three times per year, we take overnight trips out of town, such as cruises or trips to the mountains, and she also returns to visit China every fall. I make an effort to keep her entertained.
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Well sometimes it’s a mix of both sometimes you can’t go wrong with doing something you know you both enjoy but as well as doing new things and trying to make something special for both.
I used to try my best
Most women I dated actually preferred simple stuff
The would rather watch a movie naked at my place
I enjoy memorable activities and would love real dates
(I’ve had plenty to be fair)
I'm single, always have been :/
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