Girls when you swipe right does that mean you are willing to get physical with the guy?

[Anonymous]

Don't get me wrong if this sounds too basic, just to clarify some confusions asking this thing to you girls.

Of course

Almost sure

More likely

Only if he asks for it otherwise no

[thatgirl2000]

Possibly. It depends on other factors. This might sound counterintuitive but when a guy immediately just goes straight to asking about sex immediately, it means to me that's the only thing he wants. Also, if he says immediately he doesn't want anything serious, that also means he just wants to get laid. If you personally want something more I would avoid that. Sometimes someone is attractive online but in person there's no sexual chemistry I had that happen. If I did swipe, I do find the person attractive not a guarantee I'll sleep with them.

[blackeagle007]

Weird. Usually women are all looks

[thatgirl2000]

@blackeagle007 they're important, but not the only thing that is attractive, though partners should be attractive to each other, which isn't just physical traits. I'm sure, as a man would still want the most attractive partner you can obtain, while not sacrificing too much integrity

[blackeagle007]

I wouldn’t want someone like that in my life if her only focus is on $, a shit attitude, unfaithful. I’d hope you feel the same

[BlondieGirl_]

Yes. I’d not then why are those girls on dating apps

[blackeagle007]

Ego boost

[Summeroflove]

Showing attraction doesn’t always mean a woman wants to bang you. If a woman’s wanting to have sex ten seconds after meeting you she’s probably a slut. Real attraction and relationships take time to genuinely get to know one another even if it’s awkward in the beginning.

[MannMitAntworten]

I remember when I did the online thing years ago there was a lot of “swiping left” and was even with those who ‘appeared’ attractive. Largely because of empty “about me” sections. It basically expressed to me in my head a general lack of taking the relationship search serious. So why put in the effort of swiping right? The few who shared a little (sometimes a lot) helped filter themselves out or through depending on what was shared. That made narrowing down possibilities all the easier. Then the further filtering took place occurred if they responded or not. Then it was a matter of seeing if we remotely gelled conversationally from there and that is even if they would not get distracted by some ‘like’ and move on talking with them fir the next day - which happens a lot even when you seemingly ‘click’ together. After all that maybe you left with a couple possibilities or none at all. The same can happen when randomly meeting someone while out in public. Only difference is you can see them in person to begin with and engage them in conversation in the sane moment which greatly speeds up the filtering process.


For whatever reasons I just think it is just getting more different to meet someone we actually click with and feel the excitement that usually goes along with that. Such is life…

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

From what I've seen, even on Tinder which is marketed for casual sex, swiping right is just a why not.

If the guy's capacity for conversation is limited and if his personality isn't warm enough, then he's going to end up in the never-ending pile of dismissed candidates.

Which makes sense, the prospect of good sex derives from the capacity to feel and articulate thoughts. Without this, nice eyes, nice pecs, nice butt look as exciting and comforting as an afternoon spent at home depot

[beenherebefore]

I haven't used dating apps in years but when I was on the sometimes I would swipe right on someone just out of boredom and with zero intentions of meeting them in person. So to answer your question, NO.

[PeachyPie93]

No it just means the guy is attractive.. It takes more than being attractive to want to sleep with a guy. Tho for easy woman it is that they are willing to sleep with the guy more than likely.

[Asker]

What are some things that makes you want to sleep with a person?

[PeachyPie93]

Does he click with me, do we get along well, are we looking for the same thing, does he treat me well, Is he smart, is he caring, is he hygienic, is he stable, is he emotionally mature. I need a mixture of things for me to consider a guy seriously.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Not for me. For me it's all about personality and how he treats me. I'm not about looks alone and a quick profile read. I want to know more about him and have actual conversations first.

[blackeagle007]

Women like you are very rare

[lilBigPotato]

Just talking about looks, yes. But there's more to it than just that

[Anonymous]

Depends on a girl, not all of them have the same opinion.

[TwoToTooTutu2]

It doesn't even mean they want to talk to you