I am bringing cake to the office tomorrow for two coworkers. One of them is my crush. How about sending this text?

[Cutekity]

My crush knows that I am bringing cake for him and another coworker. He won’t be in the office until lunch time. How about I send him this tex to remind him to come to the office because I am bringing cake?: “I hope you are ready for the best dessert of your life - no pressure”.
If a good idea, what emoji could I add?

Yes, send the text

No, don’t send the text

Updates

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I sent the text message and he replied:
Looking forward to it. I’ll be in the office around 11:30 👍

We had a nice time talking a bit, but we are not close yet.

[Zack-Bann]

Sounds like you’re doing it too little and too slow


When it comes to office crushes you don’t wanna become “Ms Moneypeny” pining after a guy who can keep you on the back burner because you work together so he always has access if he needed it


Either go all in or don’t do a thing at all

[Cutekity]

I hear you. What do you recommend doing? I just can't risk a sexual harassment complaint.

[Zack-Bann]

It’s always a risk with office romance unfortunately
The good news is as a woman the HR department will always take your side no matter what goes down so you’re somewhat safe

I do recommend exercising restraint and being very respectful of the guy’s boundaries
But also be bolder.
Ask him out outside of office hours
Flirt, compliment, demonstrate interest

If it’s mutual he’ll do the rest and meet you halfway anyway

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t send that , since you don’t know if he likes you , u don’t want a hr complaint.

[CubaPirate]

Do it what's to lose

[CubaPirate]

Slowly Slowly catch to monkey 🐒