Ever had a childhood or teenage crush? If so do you still have that crush? How did it go? Did you ever declare yourself? If not why not?

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Lliam · Accepted Answer

From the time I was old enough to go out and play, I was good friends with a neighbor girl named Judy who was a year older than me. I had a crush on her even though I didn't know what a crush was. But she made me feel kind of gooey inside.
We are still friends.

I had a crush on a girl named Kim in kindergarten although I didn't tell her.

I had a crush on girl named Diane in first and second grade. We sat next to each other in class.

In 3rd-8th grade, I had a crush on a girl named Mary Conway. In around 6th grade, she started blossoming but I was still a kid.

In my teens, beginning when I was maybe 13, I used to go to my friend's house to swim in his pool with our friends. His younger sister's best friend was named Leila and lived down the street. The girls often came over to swim, too.
By the time Leila was in her early teens, she had blossomed.
She was seriously gorgeous with wavy, strawberry-blonde hair, a cute face with pixie nose with a few freckles across the bridge, lovely, pink lips, striking blue eyes, a flawless, pale, pink and white complexion and, even though she was kind of flat up top, had luscious hips and thighs and the most amazing ass ever created.
I fantasized about her but never tried to hit on her because she was about 3 years younger than me.
We eventually lost touch and I heard she got married.

I got my own girlfriend when I was 16. (I am Facebook friends with her now.) I had others as time went by. But when I was 34, Leila called me. She had called my old home number and my mom gave her my number.
She was near the end of a divorce from her husband. She lived a long way away but came to my apartment. At 31 years old, she was even more gorgeous. She even had perfect boobs.

Long story short, we rented a house together so that she could bring her kids sometimes. Things were wonderful for several months. But, as it turned out, she was crazy and the relationship eventually turned into a nightmare. One day, she moved out while I was at work and even took some of my stuff, including $500 that I had set aside for rent. I never want to see or hear from her again.

The good thing was, I got to live out all my sexual fantasies with her. She was my eager sex doll for months. I adored her at first, but now I only think about how I got to fuck the ever l loving shit out of her every day, fill her with cum and get BJs.
So that's my story about a teen age crush.

Zack-Bann · Accepted Answer

Oh yeah.
She was amazing.

I never told her.

And as we grew older we both changed so much.
She’s a totally different person now. Not one I’m interested in dating anymore but still a good friend

Besides she came out a few years back and have been in a committed lesbian relationship since
I doubt I was ever truly a contender

But it’s for the best
I learned a lot about what to do and what not to do thanks to that experience
I absolutely don’t regret having had those feelings

Lucy68 · Accepted Answer

When I was a teenager I was very very smitten with one of the guys in my friend group. He was everything 16 year old me LOVED. He was in a death metal band, had long wavy black hair, had a bunch of piercings (we're talking about multiple ear piercings, nose ring, septum piercing, belly button piercing, nipple piercings, eyebrow piercings, and tongue piercings), a few tattoos he did himself, and dressed very emo/metal. He he was 23 days older than me and I was "in love." I never told him I liked him cause well 16 year old me was very shy around guys. I did give him treats like brownies, cookies, cupcakes, etc. cause well my love Language is food and physical touch. My mom hated and we mean HATED him, cause he did have all those piercings, tattoos, sagged his pants, and was arrested on a few occasions. And he had and rode a motorcycle (but no license).

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Teen crush... yeah, I guess I did. One I never declared, but he figured it out and tried to use that to get favors out of me (HW help and such), but I ended up figuring it out. The second I did declare when we graduated... I blame John Hughes for feeling hopeful with that one; soon after my declaration I cut him off for blowing hot-cold, not offering anything substantial to our so-called friendship and openly flirting with women in front of me, which I found disrespectful.

Simslover92 · Answer

I did and I didn't profess my feelings for him until after high school when I was no longer the plain jane but by then he had become a bit washed up and not the same guy I had a crush on in school. I had started having college crushes and it seemed pointless to pursue anything with him even though he wanted to pursue something with me.

LiaRaven · Answer

Many people had crush on me but I never had one lol

NathanDavis · Answer

yes, my first, one and last crush ever... happened during middle-school, when I was a kiddy teen, lol

and no... that crush sure faded (or, more like I buried deep down) shortly after high-school and before I went to high-school

how did it go? awfully cringe and awkward lmao, I had no idea of anything regarding these matters... and I just didn't know how to deal with all of it. I did not directly declared myself to her no, but it was just so obvious to her and to everyone else that I didn't even have to admit it, and when they asked me I didn't deny it, I just didn't say anything much... because I was just way too shy to face any of that in the first place

what a mess... lmao

molonski2 · Answer

I think everybody does right? Not a lot happened sadly , at that time I was not exactly proficient with this kind of thing , I did get together with both of them ( there were a few more where nothing happened ) and probably some I was fortunate to avoid.

Don't know what happened to them all , these days at a mature age I think about them a lot , but really it's just glorifying a thought , they'd all be too old for me now.

godfatherfan · Answer

I had the biggest crush on a girl in my Senior year of high school. God was she gorgeous. And as I was sitting near a friend, who was a big personality, he absolutely told her that I had a massive crush on her. So, yes, she knew. But she was a popular girl and I was not. So I had no shot. I even almost asked her to prom, even though I despise dancing and knew there was no way she could say yes knowing her other friends.

FreyaRed · Answer

It was funny and euphoric for a while it lasted more than 4 years. Once the idealism disappeared it was over. Unfortunately he wasn't mature as I thought, when he recognized it's really over he tried to destroy my image among our common friends. This was very disappointing

hannamontana · Answer

Some burned bright and quick, others lingered way longer than they should’ve. Did I ever confess? Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Honestly, a lot of times it was just safer to keep it locked away, especially when you’re young and the fear of rejection feels like the end of the world. But looking back, those crushes were like little lessons in bravery and heartbreak.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Yeah I had a few crushes when I was in highschool.. I never told any of them because I was dork and that would be embarrassing to get turned down.. My favourite one was my childhood friend I known since we were 6.. but he changed a lot since we were younger, he is really muscly now and bald so not really my type anymore.

Shiprex · Answer

I had one, never acted on it, ran into her 15 years later and had a fling with her though she'd been married and had 2 kids by then and it fizzled out when she judged me for buying a house in a place that had been a brown field site in the town. She went back to her ex I think after that

Anonymous · Answer

I had a crush on one guy as a child and another as a teenager. The childhood one fizzled out, never really talked to/knew guy just thought he was cool/cute. The one as a teenager was one of my friends. I never went for it because I was shy and a lot of my friends liked him too. Found out years later he had a crush on me too. Pretty sure that’s dead on both sides now

Dongie · Answer

Oooof, Shelly Oliver! The MEANEST female to ever be on this planet. She was so mean to me and me o in love in the third grade she made my stomach hurt to the point of getting physically sick. Just from talking bad about me in front of her older sister and my two sisters in front of me like I wasn't there. I hate her now!!

dustybiker2 · Answer

No. I was into horses for the longest time. Boys came and went and I never noticed. My friends who were/are all male would laugh at me. They wouldn't have let anyone near me anyway. So it was for the best.

Tarifa · Answer

I've had those teenage crushes. Getting to know girls was a bit scary and I had to overcome my initial fears. I was too shy at the time for it to be natural.

The times I did declare myself, they already knew. I'm unable to hide anything.

jahaims · Answer

I met my wife while we were teens. We have only been with each other and have been married for 10 years.

genericname85 · Answer

had a big crush on her for years probably like 5 years. then i made my move, got rejected just so that she's get with my best friend at the time to get cheated on by him xD best time of my life... not.

exitseven · Answer

8th grade I had a big crush on a girl who sat behind me in homeroom. I never told her and in 9th grade she went to a different school and I never saw her agian.

beenherebefore · Answer

I surely had. I remember being a little girl and having crushes on other boys but I don't even remember who they are anymore.

Miristheiss · Answer

I had a crush every year umtil about 10th grade. I did not tell most of them.

Massageman · Answer

Yes. At our 50th High School reunion, she was there and I found out she had a crush on ME! Who woulda' figured - - - - - (beauty and the geek)

Raam1994 · Answer

Who will be there without a teenage crush. Everyone will have a childhood sweet heart!  It’s like a the first wave of a sea.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Still friends with her!! She's still as cute as she was all those decades ago!

jamesgoldman · Answer

Yes I suppose We dated for 8 months Under duress but in worked see above

jenn2838 · Answer

I had a teenage crush and never confessed but surprisingly he still came to my mind from time to time even years after I stopped seeing him.

Panthero80 · Answer

I had one in grade school and one in high school.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes i had i still think i loved him a little i never got to tell him i loved him

Anonymous · Answer

Yes to the first part of the question. No to the second. Why did it go? I grew up.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I never told her, but she knew... it was unrequited love :(

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

I had plenty of them

jazzy34 · Answer

Of course.

Chocolatetwopointtwo · Answer

nahh

Jenny212005 · Answer

I did but no longer

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