Are you into serious relationships more or into hookups?

[sarah549]

[DishLady]

I know and value myself too much to be into "hookups" (which for some reason always remind me of catching a fish that has to be tossed back into the water for being too small/insufficient). "Hookups" are just sex.

Those who value the sacred ritual of sharing oneself fully reserve sex for those who are worthy of that level of time, attention and devotion.

[Paige90]

I have done both. I am discreet about hookups as society doesn't look at them favorably.

[ohsheeT]

I'm 100 % more in to relationships. But I'm single right now and what I wish is for a serious hookup to turn in to a serious relationship

[OneViewpoint]

Not looking for a serious relationship at the moment. I'm enjoying my freedom to come and go as I please and do what I want when I want. But not looking for hookups either. I'm not a fan of drunken backseat exposure to STD's. And I'm not looking for a friends with benefits situation either. That's a form of relationship.

What I find ideal right now is an affair. A short term relationship with an endpoint. Friends. Get to know each other. Maybe it turns into passionate physical sex. But it doesn't go on for 2 years or more. Like I said, I value my freedom. There are things I like to do and it's virtually impossible to find a woman who will do them with me. Like skiing challenging mountains.

[Zack-Bann]

I think seriousness is a dial


You don’t spin it fast else you overcook the relationship.


It needs to start slow and low in commitment and increase over time


(Not necessarily a lot of time)


But I wouldn’t go out with a girl I just met thinking about the “serious relationship” we’re gonna have


My first question is
how fun is she?
Will she like my humor?
Will we have similar world views?
What do her lips taste like?
What do her other lips taste like?
Will we get along with our respective families and friends?
….


You get the general idea.


It’s a buildup towards something
Not an expectation of something from the get go.


That’s how people end up committing to the wrong people and often ruining their lives

[Orion84]

At this point, neither, really.

I've never been the type of guy to indulge in hookups, and I've pretty much had my fill of relationships, so for the forseeable future, I'm just enjoying the uncomplicated single life.

[Subtle_Luminescence]

Serious preferably but don't mind having fun on the side till a good match is found to settle.

[lilBigPotato]

Both, different things during different stages in life. When I find the right guy, I prefer a serious relationship with him over staying single. But until that happens nothing wrong with having some fun

[red-lipstick-girl]

Serious relationship because I care a lot about being valued

[TheSpaceGnome]

Only the serious mongamous type of relationship.

[Simslover92]

Serious relationships

[MemeSupreme]

im... just one of those people who never be into hookups lol

[Nikki1989]

Serious relationships.

[sarah549]

You have nice eyes

[Drumlin2001]

Not sure I could do one night stands. Prefer relationships

[Anonymous]

Serious monogamous relationships. I don't do hookups.

[RHK36]

Casual and hook ups. My patience and trust in women is depleted enough that I'd rather have peace.

[Anonymous]

I never had a relationship, but I would want to have a serious relationship, not just a hookup.

[Anonymous]

Serious relationships for me.

[jahaims]

Only broken people do hookups

[Arcadian222]

Hookups outside serious

[fonduegirl]

Neither. Too much drama.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Serious

[Bunnybuny]

Hookups

[hello4433]

Both

[wkhan_87]

I am into marriage.

[MasterKS]

all hookups.

[dudeinohio]

Serious relationship

[BarryLiverstone]

What’s a hookup?