I slept we a few ladies on the first date... i made every effort to make things work. But it is what it is.My second wife, we banged first date. She was a freak in the sack. In the end, she couldn't handle me not wanting any more kids. She was 30 i was 40.
You're 23 give it time babe...
@DonCachondo I am stubborn and stuck in this way. Trust me, it won’t change, and I’m proud of it.
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You're amazing ^
Thank you, im sure your amazing too.
It's still enjoyable, I've never been in a relationship for awhile, but I just do hookups. 😂
@joker2020 Hmm... Do you think it'd be fair to say it's a "fun of the new and exciting" vs "fun of the familiar and knowledgeable"?
Other than sex, can't you do all those things with friends?
@DonCachondo not quite to the same extent. Like there’s a certain intimacy in romantic relationships that is unlike any other
That sounds pretty contrived... It's as though you're taking the word of cultural messaging at the expense of personal experience. If anything, it's much easier for most people to relate intrasexually than intersexually due to common interests and similar life struggles.
@DonCachondo well my experience has been that I always felt most understood and accepted by my partner. I love relationships.
Given your age, I think you are going to find in a few years that the pool of women is getting a bit muddy, the young ones will see you as too old, many hot ones will be in committed relationships, the ones available will have kids crimping the style and they are losing that fresh look. It gets harder from there and then you are in your 50s.
@Jersey2 not saying it won't, but I don't hold anyone to expectations. Never was like "if you don't want to sleep with me get out", just try to have fun in whatever I'm doing. If one woman doesn't want sex, another will, either way I still maintain relationships not built on need/dependency to use people for satisfaction/throw them out if they don't supply.Never feared getting older, always looked at it as a stage of life, another might come along later where I settle down, if not that's fine too, not really depend outside to be happy, just learn from experiences & take what comes, but agree, and expect, growing older experiences will change, won't be worse necessarily, but different, and will carry diverse experiences into whatever comes next.That's basically my mindset/approach toward life.
@Jersey2 best wishes for your 104th birthday by the way
Hookups give experience of variety... like visiting one country vs. many, doesn't mean you don't appreciate/value it, but want to have the broad awareness that come in having had many wide ranges of experiences & people; individual preference.
@chris0977 what benefit does that create though? I can't really see how I'm missing anything by not engaging in the variety of empty and shallow sex.
Exactly. To conceptualize something never experienced directly can largely only be assumption, like you can assume what another thinks, or how you'd react in a situation empathetically, but being in the situation can create an entirely different awareness than what's expected.I don't engage in empty, shallow sex. Often relationships are categorized; food, beach, sex (everything is "relationships" (platonic or otherwise) while "sex" is its own separate topic. For me it's be friends, hang out, have fun - sex is another activity among many. I consider social media, which I once used for years, largely, in common use, meaningless, but many will argue "it's fun" or "it passes time", while I see far fewer saying "I could study philosophy, art, and history rather than be on social media (even texting to a large degree" if replacement of empty, shallow action with substance is the goal... yet many I share this perspective with have little interest to ditch Snapchat, or texting, for face-to-face interaction, or to study languages, art, philosophy, etc.
OR people could actually feel different about it. I think I'll stick with the truth on this one, I don't need to try and delude myself or anyone else. I know what works for me and what doesn't. That's simply all there is to it.
@chris0977 That's such a lie, like who cares. If I had that type of experience, I would try to forget them.
Lol... pay better.
Hold up what?
Did she just say "pay better"?
Sluts need love too...