Why am I getting comments that I’m using my boyfriend because I can’t really get the man I want?

[AmazonChick171]

I finally have a man that likes me for me and he loves the fact that I’m tall. He’s 5’6 but he is kind, loyal, smart, honest and makes me laugh. Also he doesn’t take shit from no one. His personality won my heart. I’m 6’4” and I’m more open minded to dating lower instead of only focusing on dating men 6’4+ and getting rejected.

I had to sit back and think, “What can I try differently?” That’s when this guy came. We’ve been dating for four months now, we’ll four in a half and we are both very happy. You guys are just jealous and you don’t like it, SUCK A DICK! Bye!

[Summeroflove]

If you genuinely love him then people are putting you down to make themselves feel better. When people find genuine love the ENVIOUS people come out of the word work. It doesn’t matter what the situation is. If you found a man whose 7 foot tall people would say shit.

If you’re happy people who are miserable can literally see that especially when they are superficial and materialistic. They can’t find happy relationships and many narcissists cannot form those relationships if they tried to they’re so far gone.

If you can say you love him and he loves you. That’s all that matters is if you’re both genuinely happy with one another. People who aren’t miserable will be happy for you both. Not trying to sabotage the relationship.

You’re only using someone if you’re using someone. Now there are people who will “settle” for someone waste their time string them along until they can dump them for someone else. Yes, this happens but you’ll notice there is a LOT of people who project who they are on others. Because people will accuse you of doing things to find out years down the road that’s what they’re doing.

Such as all the sudden they divorced their husband or wife for someone new… Date someone for 10 years and never get married. But all the sudden dump that person and get married in 6 months. That shit. Same people who accuse others of doing it.

Like cheating. Cheaters accuse and spread roomers true or untrue about cheating. But then they’re having affairs all along.

[Cormac995]

When people see a healthy relationship and lash out at someone because they think they see something that's not there it's almost always projection. Odds are they're in shitty relationships and are insecure that they're more shallow than you and less happy as a result.

[DishLady]

The fact that you call it "dating lower" is concerning bc it indicates you don't respect the guy. You could have said "dating shorter" (which is supposedly what you're talking about). WHERE is the man you supposedly want in all this? I don't see one. Your post's confusing (and the rude ending isn't helpful in clarifying anything). Perhaps this should be a MyRant rather than a question.

[NordicInScandinavia]

It's the "he's 5'6 BUT..." and "I’m more open minded to dating lower instead of only focusing on dating men 6’4+ and getting rejected."

I don't think I've EVER cared about my partners height in the slightest and I've dated taller men and shorter men. And with how much you've complained about being rejected, then I think no one is jealous of you

[RageBabe]

I have no idea, but rather than being offended by people's opinions on here, perhaps spend some quality time with your new man.

[SixFootSexy]

1) You care too much about other's opinions, it's just noise.

2) You don't respect the man you're with currently by your own admission: "dating lower"

[AmazonChick171]

How do I not respect him? I do

[HighValue]

The best advice I can give is that if you are happy in your relationship, don't listen to advice from anyone about that relationship. If you are already happy, it can only make things worse to listen to others.

[WonderingManII]

Dating isn't like going to a store and selecting the thing you want to buy, and then just take it home. So to say "you can or can't get the man you want" is a stupid thing to say. You click with who you click with. End of story.

[moviedude714]

Well I'm glad it's working out, how did you both meet each other? Other people's opinions don't matter what matters is how you both feel about each other.

Is he older or younger than you?

[Anonymous]

I’m 6’3 and in a mischievous mood


I wouldn’t reject you at all


And part of me wants to break your boyfriend’s heart if you’re up for it

[exitseven]

Hey, don't lump me in with those guys. I'm on your side

[AmazonChick171]

I didn’t

[exitseven]

Okay 🙂🙂🙂

[RavVid]

I'm glad you have found somebody. I remember your struggles. Enjoy your love.

[renodnol32]

Don't let them get to you. Its from people who mean nothing to you.

[TheoreticallyGreat]

Doesn't sound like you're using him, just sounds like you've found someone who makes you happy

[AmazonChick171]

Exactly!!! They need to mind their own business

[TheoreticallyGreat]

I concur, just enjoy each other if you are good for each other :)

[Anonymous]

i assume he was the one that asked you out and hit on you, made a move on you.

[Arcadian222]

6'4"?

I want to DM

[AmazonChick171]

My boyfriend would not like that of you DM me. Yea I am 6’4 and a female

[Arcadian222]

Its ok. Give me a follow then 🤣

[dudeinohio]

Glad you found someone

[TallAnon]

Eh, my height does not make me more picky

[DJB72]

Congratulations 😊