I have noticed that some G@G users put the blame on me because I can't find a new boyfriend. I don't think I have anything to blame on myself. I have been struggling to find a boyfriend because my mom hasn't changed her mind about who I can date. Despite being a young adult, my mother refuses to let me date men without a learning disability. I am the only one who can control myself, not my mother. Yes, my mom is always agrue about dating and what guys I can and can't date. One of the last things said was this line. You will be unable to date or be in a relationship at all. Yep, the slieneit treatment always happens to me only with my mother. My mum always gets her way and never let me down when it comes to dating and relationships. Lying doesn't work with my mum. I did ask two of my sisters if they had any problem with our mum and both one is older said no i don't have any problems with dating or relationship. It is possible that the younger girl also has a learning disability. However, she has no problem dating or being in a relationship if she wants to and has already got a boyfriend. Her older sister also has a boyfriend. Why am I the one who struggles to get a new boyfriend and struggles with my mum when it comes to dating?
I can't answer why people on this site do what they do.
I think there's several pieces to this.
First, your mum isn't in charge of your life. If she's involved in you dating, that's your choice. You own that.
I've been on this site since September. A lot of your questions are about why you can't get a boyfriend.
Here's what I'll tell you: people not desiring another person is either passive or active. Either they're just not attracted to you or you're doing something they find objectionable.
Then, how many people are you interacting with? It takes a LOT of people to interact with to get a date. Are you out there every day interacting with people, talking with them, building relationships to the point where guys say, wow, I want to date her? If you're not doing that, then yes, the problem is on you.
And the minute you start listing excuses, you just underline what I just wrote and what @DubiousIntentions said.
Dating takes a lot of time and effort. Are you putting that in?
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Well for starters, people here are very toxic, you can always count on them to make you feel like shit, and second, fooling your mom shouldn't be so hard, just tell whatever normal guy you want to date to pretend he has a learning disability around her, boom you chillin
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A lot of people on here, and in life, will often make assumptions based upon their own life experiences. Since no one has walked in your shoes, it is safe to consider what they say, and then ignore it if it does not apply.
just ignore them
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